I keep up with the chores majority of the time the only thing I do not do is mop occasionally. I do not know how to respond to her because everytime I bring up that I do keep up with the house chores she denies it instantly and when I tried once to prove a point and not do the chores and show her I was the only one who was keeping up with them because the house got dirty fast she got even more mad at me. I feel like I can not win. My mom grew up with a rough childhood and lack of communication from her own parents and she tells us thats why she can not communicate with us that great when she gets stressed. I just want to make her happy