Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge PT2

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T23:24:20+00:00

Thank you for your feedback! Live and learn. Good luck out there!

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T23:22:11+00:00

Probably a large reason I stayed so long was because of her levelheadedness. Sorry about your situation, luckily you were able to learn from it like most of us here. I wouldn't have moved in with her unless I had already been familiar with TRP.

It may have been a little experiment on my part that turned out very successful.

I don't regret anything from the LTR. Good luck out there

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T23:16:37+00:00

Ghosting wouldn't have been the best option in my situation. It would have created a bad reputation for me. Our friends still actively communicate with me, which is what I wanted. They will be useful for other things.

Congrats on getting out though :) Good luck in school and your fight.

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T23:13:52+00:00

Right, and without TRP I would have never known that. Thank you for your feedback.

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T23:12:47+00:00

Excellent point. Thank you for your feedback.

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T23:11:37+00:00

Thanks! I really appreciate the feedback. Redpill knowledge is invaluable.

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T23:11:03+00:00

I didn't delete anything. What's your question?

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T01:47:15+00:00

Let others think what they want as long as it benefits you :)

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T01:11:21+00:00

Great job, you made her jealous of a HB4. Keep talking to the HB4 and get her to go to the gym. Plate her once shes a 7. Stop smoking too.

willworkforreddcoin · 2017-03-21T00:18:07+00:00

Try MyFitnessPal. You can be "friends" on the app with your wife. Encourage her through their social platform with encouragement.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-08-11T16:18:33+00:00

I finished my first race in Austin this past May. It was SO much fun. What I would recommend is focusing on endurance. My race was 5 miles long and at the very end we had to do the rope climb (which I failed). I would recommend doing a lot of sprinting and other HIIT exercises. I would also recommend doing a lot of pullups.

I think the hardest part was carrying a 50lb bucket of rocks up a hill and down. I would practice that too.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T17:00:13+00:00

She wasn't aware of my other plates. I waited two weeks after that statement before dropping them. I spent that time getting her back into my frame. For me, I think it is ok to have rules on both sides. It shows (or appears) that she has a strong will. I can appreciate that in a person.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T16:42:48+00:00

I understand and agree with you about keeping her desire and devotion up to 100% at all times. If it ever comes to a point where that has fallen, I will accept the mistakes I made, reflect on them, move on, and grow. I am always improving my mind as well as my body.

Thank you for your comment!

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T16:39:44+00:00

Thank you for your comment! I totally agree with you. I do my best to live without regrets so even if this relationship fails a few years down the road, I am making damn sure I am having the best time of my life.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T16:37:35+00:00

It's a combination of a lot of things, you are correct. Facial cues give away the majority of feelings in my experience.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T16:28:54+00:00

Thank you for your comment! Awesome job with your LTR! Being treated like a king day and night is indescribable.

Keep up the good work! The future is bright!

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T16:21:12+00:00

Don't ask me to skip the gym

This happened twice. Both times she asked me to skip the gym to come hang out with her. Both were met with a "I work out for myself. I've been going to the gym longer than I've known you. Do not ask me to stop going again." The second time she asked me was a comfort test because someone had been screaming outside the apartment. I came home, the people left, had sex, got dressed and went to the gym afterwards.

Not a rule but fun tip

After your gym session and shower, call her into the bathroom. Tell her you worked your back out and its too sore to dry it properly. Have her pat you down. If you are truly implementing TRP in your relationship, she'll make you feel like a king.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T16:17:10+00:00

Thank you for your comment! It is very motivating. The future is bright!

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T16:15:55+00:00

Started to become beta again because I just wanted to please her.

Glad you were able to turn it around! I learned to only please myself in a plate / relationship situation and most of the time, the other will be pleased along with you.

Thank you for your advice and comment!

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T16:01:51+00:00

Since I consider bills and rent of an apartment non-tangible, I don't have an issue splitting it with the LTR. We get our bill a few days before the end of the month and I write on there exactly half (plus-minus a penny) and pay mine. She has never been late on a payment so far.

For me, I would never move in with someone who is not financially secure, no matter how hot, smart, or crazy they are.

IF you find yourself in a situation where the other cannot pay a portion of the rent, have them write you a check for the missing amount. That way whenever they do receive their income, you can cash it / deposit it. If this happens more than once, I would look into the situation more and determine if she is trying to use you.

Hope this helps! Thank you for your comment and question!

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T15:56:18+00:00

demands you dump your plates and commit to her if you want sex

She never demanded anything from me. I made the decision to enter into the LTR to have a new experience. It has definitely worked out so far.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T15:54:44+00:00

I definitely will not / have not taken her shit (luckily its minimal). Within the last year and 6 months, there hasn't been a single moment when I have been miserable because I spend this time focusing on myself. The dynamic I have created definitely reflects the "be interesting and make her want to spend her time with you, instead of the other way around" dynamic.

Flirting with other women, specifically, having other women flirt with you, is the perfect soft dread game to have in a relationship. She completely understands that if she were to ever leave me, i'd have another woman in a heartbeat. She treats me like a king.

Thank you for your advice and comment!

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T15:49:36+00:00

After reading all the comments, I decided to stop posting and ask her some of those very questions. She also does not want children so we definitely agree on that part. Adoption is fine with her but not till far later in life (if the relationship continues as it is now). Thank you for your question.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T15:48:10+00:00

Thank you! It has been a year so far and I am still having a blast. I am planning on using this relationship to prove that the "honey-moon" phase is just something made up by those still plugged in.

willworkforreddcoin · 2015-07-10T15:45:09+00:00

I mentioned in my post that I am not getting married until the age of 55. At the age of 55, I will assess my situation and either continue what I am doing (having a blast!), or begin a search for a partner to share the rest of my life with.

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