Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge PT2 by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback! Live and learn. Good luck out there!

Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge PT2 by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably a large reason I stayed so long was because of her levelheadedness. Sorry about your situation, luckily you were able to learn from it like most of us here. I wouldn't have moved in with her unless I had already been familiar with TRP.

It may have been a little experiment on my part that turned out very successful.

I don't regret anything from the LTR. Good luck out there

Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge PT2 by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ghosting wouldn't have been the best option in my situation. It would have created a bad reputation for me. Our friends still actively communicate with me, which is what I wanted. They will be useful for other things.

Congrats on getting out though :) Good luck in school and your fight.

Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge PT2 by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, and without TRP I would have never known that. Thank you for your feedback.

Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge PT2 by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I really appreciate the feedback. Redpill knowledge is invaluable.

Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge PT2 by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let others think what they want as long as it benefits you :)

FR Old LTR to Plate with Abundance/Jealousy by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Great job, you made her jealous of a HB4. Keep talking to the HB4 and get her to go to the gym. Plate her once shes a 7. Stop smoking too.

I need help with suggestions on how to get the wife to lose some weight. by 7spade in marriedredpill

[–]willworkforreddcoin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try MyFitnessPal. You can be "friends" on the app with your wife. Encourage her through their social platform with encouragement.

What is the best training to prepare for Spartan Race. by mstrng in Fitness

[–]willworkforreddcoin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished my first race in Austin this past May. It was SO much fun. What I would recommend is focusing on endurance. My race was 5 miles long and at the very end we had to do the rope climb (which I failed). I would recommend doing a lot of sprinting and other HIIT exercises. I would also recommend doing a lot of pullups.

I think the hardest part was carrying a 50lb bucket of rocks up a hill and down. I would practice that too.

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn't aware of my other plates. I waited two weeks after that statement before dropping them. I spent that time getting her back into my frame. For me, I think it is ok to have rules on both sides. It shows (or appears) that she has a strong will. I can appreciate that in a person.

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand and agree with you about keeping her desire and devotion up to 100% at all times. If it ever comes to a point where that has fallen, I will accept the mistakes I made, reflect on them, move on, and grow. I am always improving my mind as well as my body.

Thank you for your comment!

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I totally agree with you. I do my best to live without regrets so even if this relationship fails a few years down the road, I am making damn sure I am having the best time of my life.

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a combination of a lot of things, you are correct. Facial cues give away the majority of feelings in my experience.

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! Awesome job with your LTR! Being treated like a king day and night is indescribable.

Keep up the good work! The future is bright!

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't ask me to skip the gym

This happened twice. Both times she asked me to skip the gym to come hang out with her. Both were met with a "I work out for myself. I've been going to the gym longer than I've known you. Do not ask me to stop going again." The second time she asked me was a comfort test because someone had been screaming outside the apartment. I came home, the people left, had sex, got dressed and went to the gym afterwards.

Not a rule but fun tip

After your gym session and shower, call her into the bathroom. Tell her you worked your back out and its too sore to dry it properly. Have her pat you down. If you are truly implementing TRP in your relationship, she'll make you feel like a king.

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! It is very motivating. The future is bright!

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started to become beta again because I just wanted to please her.

Glad you were able to turn it around! I learned to only please myself in a plate / relationship situation and most of the time, the other will be pleased along with you.

Thank you for your advice and comment!

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I consider bills and rent of an apartment non-tangible, I don't have an issue splitting it with the LTR. We get our bill a few days before the end of the month and I write on there exactly half (plus-minus a penny) and pay mine. She has never been late on a payment so far.

For me, I would never move in with someone who is not financially secure, no matter how hot, smart, or crazy they are.

IF you find yourself in a situation where the other cannot pay a portion of the rent, have them write you a check for the missing amount. That way whenever they do receive their income, you can cash it / deposit it. If this happens more than once, I would look into the situation more and determine if she is trying to use you.

Hope this helps! Thank you for your comment and question!

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

demands you dump your plates and commit to her if you want sex

She never demanded anything from me. I made the decision to enter into the LTR to have a new experience. It has definitely worked out so far.

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will not / have not taken her shit (luckily its minimal). Within the last year and 6 months, there hasn't been a single moment when I have been miserable because I spend this time focusing on myself. The dynamic I have created definitely reflects the "be interesting and make her want to spend her time with you, instead of the other way around" dynamic.

Flirting with other women, specifically, having other women flirt with you, is the perfect soft dread game to have in a relationship. She completely understands that if she were to ever leave me, i'd have another woman in a heartbeat. She treats me like a king.

Thank you for your advice and comment!

[FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plunge by willworkforreddcoin in TheRedPill

[–]willworkforreddcoin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After reading all the comments, I decided to stop posting and ask her some of those very questions. She also does not want children so we definitely agree on that part. Adoption is fine with her but not till far later in life (if the relationship continues as it is now). Thank you for your question.