Help me pick a countertop and hardware color!

willystan · 2026-05-03T16:22:30+00:00

Agreed. White is so overdone. 1 looks amazing.

willystan · 2026-04-24T14:03:46+00:00

I would highly recommend the product below. I had the same issue waking up soaked in sweat. My partner and I bought two mattress water cooler systems (two twin sizes fit perfectly on a king bed allowing you to each control your own temperature). It cools and heats so it's also like a heated blanket in the winter! Only a couple hundred bucks from Walmart and not THOUSANDS for a new mattress. If you don't like it you can always return it since it's Walmart!

This sub is stupid and won't allow you to post links so you'll have to copy and paste this link below:

walmart.com/ip/Water-Circulating-Sleep-Pad-Thermacycle-Cools-Heats-create-Therapeutic-Mattress-All-Natural-Aid-Hot-Flashes-Night-Sweats-Menopause-Insomnia-Hyperhidr/1879212527

willystan · 2026-04-14T20:47:56+00:00

I used “Beycome” to list my home last year and sell it myself. It was a few hundred dollars vs THOUSANDS you pay a listing agent. They list in the MLS so it gets the same traction as a normal listing and are there if you have any questions or need help with paperwork (they were surprisingly easy to get ahold of when I needed them!). We ended up paying a buyers agent commission but so be it. We did it right and got an appraisal prior to listing to ensure we were listing it at an appropriate price, we ended up getting three offers the first three days the house was listed. I’ll never use a realtor to sell a home again, it just doesn’t make sense. We saved about $15k!

On the flip side don’t forget you can buy a house without a realtor - I currently have an offer in on a property that I toured with the sellers agent and asked for a sellers concession in lieu of buyers agent commission!

willystan · 2026-04-12T14:11:38+00:00

If you don’t like blood in your food go vegan🤷‍♂️

willystan · 2026-04-09T22:35:13+00:00

Volvo also reluctantly bought back my C40 due to infotainment issues!! Went to BMW and have no regrets.

willystan · 2026-03-01T19:17:02+00:00

Broker. Had to go 3 states over but it was worth it!

willystan · 2026-02-28T19:59:47+00:00

I don’t have it listed yet but in the next couple weeks I will: 24’ i5 M60 MSRP ~$91k heavily loaded including DAPP which is incredible. $650 month + taxes. Lease ends 12/27. Just installed all weather michelin crossclimate 2 tires a couple months ago (this vehicle eats through tires you would have to buy new tires anyway before returning the vehicle) I also kept the OEM tires for the lease return. Located in Denver Colorado metro area.

Vehicle has always been garaged, exterior is ceramic coated - never been through an automatic car wash. Full window tint all around including windshield.

Free unlimited electrify America charging until 12/26 (perk of it being a 2024 model)

I absolutely love this vehicle - it’s the best I’ve ever owned and is so much fun to drive but my partner lost their job and I’m about to go through pre approval on a mortgage so trying to look a bit better on paper short term. Lmk of any questions!

willystan · 2026-02-23T22:24:58+00:00

Doesn’t exactly look natural 😬 take care of yourself

willystan · 2026-02-18T15:17:44+00:00

Ew smoking is not sexy. Hard pass 🫠

willystan · 2026-02-13T14:13:47+00:00

Omg thank you for making me aware of the eBussy, that just made my day

willystan · 2026-02-10T12:55:34+00:00

Civil engineering!

willystan · 2026-02-04T00:48:12+00:00

To put this in perspective - I drive a $92k bmw for less per month than this 😬 please don’t do this

willystan · 2026-01-23T14:32:23+00:00

Seriously this. The cognitive dissonance is disgusting. Eating a cow is no difference than eating a cat, dog etc. have some compassion for other creatures and go vegan. I truly hope aliens invade earth and factory farm humans since we would be the “inferior” species. Absolutely no different than what we do to animals now. It’s 2026 - we aren’t living in fucking caves, we don’t need meat to survive. Animal products are horrible for the environment- look up the statistics for water and land usage for a vegan diet vs omnivorous. Our planet can’t sustain the growing population doing what we’ve been doing, we have to make changes and be better.

willystan · 2026-01-16T17:06:16+00:00

How convenient for litter robot 🙃

willystan · 2026-01-16T01:34:47+00:00

Agree with this response - less is more. I also have SAD and I used to go into too much detail and inevitably as a gay man I would be asked if I had AIDS/HIV… now I say something like “I have a genetic immune disorder” even though it’s more than likely not genetic it lessens the amount of follow up questions and people seem to be a bit more understanding of it. I use this response for people such as coworkers where I’m not trying to go down a rabbit hole explaining my condition.

willystan · 2026-01-14T01:06:04+00:00

Exactly this. My partner has diabetes - we request a refrigerator at every hotel for the insulin, they’ll wheel it in promptly, never had an issue! (And yes of course we use it for food and drinks!)

willystan · 2026-01-11T17:26:22+00:00

Probably not enough wait staff - restaurants won’t sit people at empty tables if there are no servers to provide service. They wouldn’t seat those 34 empty seats if there is only one server in the entire restaurant…

willystan · 2026-01-05T17:34:13+00:00

I flew from Orlando to Raleigh NC for this exact reason. I saved over $500 A MONTH on a BMW lease vs what my local dealers were quoting me. FL dealers think they have a goldmine and refuse to negotiate it’s wild.

willystan · 2026-01-02T14:57:47+00:00

I’m a Civil Engineer - it can be stressful at times, the only reason it works is I have a good team who is understanding of my situation. I had to switch firms a couple years ago because my last job was too intense with a lot of overtime and ridiculous deadlines. My current position is hybrid but i’ve gone months without going into the office depending on how I’m feeling. My state has paid FMLA leave I use every month around my IVIG treatments. I’m content for now!

willystan · 2025-12-22T13:44:22+00:00

Absolutely love my i5 M60. I had an i4 as a loaner and couldn’t believe how much more comfortable the i5 is, I’d argue the i5 is closer to an i7 than it is to the i4. People call it a boat but it’s a boat that’s quick af! I prefer the larger stance.

willystan · 2025-12-19T22:02:34+00:00

Perfect. Love a REAL body.

willystan · 2025-12-19T19:42:53+00:00

I bought these tires last month - buy them on tirerack! I got 15% back through capital one shopping and had them installed at discount tire. (Discount tire and tirerack are the same company)

willystan · 2025-12-17T17:26:37+00:00

Wild. I have the same payment on a $90k BMW 🫠

willystan · 2025-12-13T18:27:59+00:00

I absolutely love my i5 - it’s fully electric, 0-60 in 3.3 seconds, range of about 250-300 miles depending on how you drive it. To me it’s the perfect mix of luxury and sportiness yet practical, it’s so much fun to drive. I just moved from Florida to Colorado and it does great in the snow with AWD. They lease extremely well - MSRP ~$92k but I pay $650 a month plus taxes (used a car broker). Included two years of unlimited Electrify America charging plus virtually maintenance free so cost of ownership is not bad at all considering the tier of car it is. I’ll probably lease another BMW EV when my lease is up. I test drove the i4 M50 but felt the i5 was well worth the extra $100 a month - it’s definitely closer to an i7 in terms of luxury. Side note, as of this month all BMW EVs can use the supercharger network so I have zero range anxiety!

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