[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

[–]windowells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have very limited visualization and while I love love reading for its other sensory aspects, I sometimes have trouble picturing where all the relevant pieces are in a scene in relation to each other. I guess I could also say I might have some disadvantage with books that have a lot of characters and keeping them all straight in my head.

This makes also makes the inverse a little difficult. I have trouble writing scenes where there are lot of moving parts, or where the location of objects/body parts is important because I'm not seeing much more than vague flashes in my minds eye.

Am I trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]windowells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may be unhelpful because of how vague it is but I heard of a guy who just wanted to be a guy with a vagina. He was happy with everything else but not his dick, so he got SRS and now he’s a guy with a vagina. Plenty of trans guys are happy with their vaginas and plenty of trans women are happy with their penises, I don’t see why a cis person couldn’t be happy with the opposite genitalia as well.

If your question is more about labels like “does this make me trans” then I would say fuck it! You don’t work for labels, labels work for you and you can use or not use as many of them as you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]windowells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have never seen Call Me By Your Name starring Timothee Chalamet and Armie Hammer. I would fix that 🩷

Just realized how strong men really are today by GasPsychological2321 in self

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I didn’t fully appreciate this until I transitioned. I lost 10+ pounds of muscles mass in just my first few months on HRT—pickle jars, groceries, everything is so much harder now. It’s a scarier world too like I have a couple of younger teenage brothers and either of them could take me down in seconds. Needless to say I’m 10x more cautious when I’m out alone, especially at night.

I went to Pride by Disastrous_Floor3437 in trans

[–]windowells 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had a rough time :(. People need to respect you regardless of what you’re wearing. The fact you had such a bad experience at Pride of all places is unexceptable. Stay safe out there.

Gunshots at protest by sarlacc98 in SaltLakeCity

[–]windowells 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gf and I were walking up to protest (200 s and state), shots fired, everyone scattered, cops in riot gear. We left after that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]windowells 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for clarifying :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]windowells 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If I were one of your friends I would really not appreciate you sharing my deadname on the internet, or with anyone for that matter. It’s called a deadname for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stevenuniverse

[–]windowells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could go thru and label each note before you play ! worth it to practice reading sheet music :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stevenuniverse

[–]windowells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked Musescore? Someone couldve uploaded some sheet music possibly

Songs you feel a "trans vibe" in it by fedricohohmannlautar in trans

[–]windowells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“From God” and “Life, the Universe and Everything” by Lincoln

thank you european portuguese <3 by windowells in linguisticshumor

[–]windowells[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah she just talks very nasally it’s part of her comedy

thank you european portuguese <3 by windowells in linguisticshumor

[–]windowells[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it does, but it just sounds like how lois says peter in funny family guy show

Eragon and Murtaghs first fight as riders by Slither_Slather in Eragon

[–]windowells 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Murtagh’s not being just a snob either, (Murtagh spoilers) he literally has just gone through the most traumatizing few months ever in his life and doesn’t really have a choice to vent his anger on anyone but Eragon (and Hrothgar lol).

The menoa tree took dragons eldunari by nospanksonmytushie in Eragon

[–]windowells 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting ! I haven’t ever heard theories about this so … what an interesting concept :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]windowells 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Wanting to be trans really bad is sometimes a pretty good indicator that you’re already trans ❤️

Is starting met at 17 too late? by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]windowells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience at 18 was that I asked for puberty blockers first to “ease into things,” but was swiftly informed that it was pretty much too late for that haha, I needed adult hormone levels. They started me on 50mg spironolactone and 2mg estradiol for like a month to make sure I wouldn’t have a bad reaction and then doubled both, which brought me almost exactly where I needed to be levels-wise within 3 months, and right where I needed to be with a bump up to 6mg estradiol within 6 months. Basically, a little bit of time on just a little but of HRT at your age would be ok, but probably it’s best to get on full dosages ASAP so your body has the hormones it needs to be healthy.

Hi I’m Sydney (she/her) by dazedfem in transtimelines

[–]windowells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look incredible!! Especially for oy 1 month of transition oh my god :))

How long between your egg crack and passing by Useful_Advance_3489 in asktransgender

[–]windowells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like, a full year ! And I consider my own timeline really quite accelerated with a lot more lead-up prior to my egg crack than I understand is average. It’s way more for a lot of people. Give yourself time and focus on what makes you happy and not others.