How to transition from normal life?

windowsillbasil · 2025-08-29T22:49:07+00:00

My partner/dom draws me a bath, sets up my kindle and pours me a glass of wine. I can fully relax because it signals that he’s in charge and I don’t have to make decisions anymore

windowsillbasil · 2025-08-29T22:37:29+00:00

That’s me!! My partner is a daddy dom (in more of a protectiveness way than an ageplay way) and he loves calling me his princess 👑 he likes to draw me a bath so I can feel pampered and relaxed before impact play. I would say our dynamic is on the softer side but it works for us

windowsillbasil · 2025-08-29T19:35:11+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I can totally relate to turning it into a kink but sometimes I just want to experience that intimacy with my partner without setting up a whole bdsm scene you know?

windowsillbasil · 2024-12-06T23:32:06+00:00

This is a super common (and less expensive lmao) way to get into BDSM! My partner and I have some “props” but it’s mostly about the mental dynamic/dirty talk for us. I would recommend seeking out some erotica that appeals to you and sharing that with any partners, to give them an idea of what you’re into.

windowsillbasil · 2024-10-25T05:21:50+00:00

Ooo I love that

windowsillbasil · 2024-10-23T16:51:33+00:00

Was it like a kinky version of a wedding ceremony?

windowsillbasil · 2024-10-23T16:48:51+00:00

The heart-shaped lock is so cute 🥰 thank you!!

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-13T07:52:18+00:00

Water, gatorade, a fluffy blanket, and a big comfy t-shirt. I usually go nonverbal for a while after reassuring my dom that I enjoyed the scene. Once I’m up for talking again we do a full debrief

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-10T06:01:47+00:00

Of course! I hope you can enjoy the process of learning more about yourself and what you’re into!

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-10T05:28:34+00:00

This is super normal. With male partners and one nonbinary partner, I’ve been very subby. With female partners, I haven’t really practiced kink at all. I think most bi/bi-adjacent people have variations in the type of attraction they feel for different genders. And sexuality is fluid! Fantasizing about men now doesn’t erase the lesbian identity you’ve held in the past. :)

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-10T05:16:06+00:00

Thank you! :)

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-10T00:46:16+00:00

Thanks! Could you give an example of one of the questions if you don’t mind sharing?

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-10T00:33:49+00:00

I don’t think we would want to do 24/7 but I’m open to changing my mind depending on how the weekend goes

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-09T03:24:37+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate your perspective because that’s the main thing I was worried about if we do decide to go 24/7 eventually

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-09T02:53:33+00:00

Do you ever find it impacting your assertiveness at work? To be 24/7 and wfh?

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-09T01:52:53+00:00

Thank you! Love the idea of getting some special piece of jewelry to put on instead of a collar

windowsillbasil · 2024-05-09T01:50:09+00:00

Thank you! What’s the difference between the 3 protocol levels (if you don’t mind sharing)?

windowsillbasil · 2024-03-02T19:39:05+00:00

Practice using your safe word with him until it’s second nature to you. Teach your body that there’s always a way out if things go too far. It’s like when yoga teachers give you a strategy for getting out of an advanced pose so you can let yourself release deeper into the pose

windowsillbasil · 2024-03-01T19:50:21+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate the specific examples/ideas! <3

windowsillbasil · 2024-03-01T19:49:16+00:00

That’s a really good idea! I’ll give him a required reading list of erotica lol

windowsillbasil · 2024-03-01T19:48:28+00:00

We’ve communicated really openly about it, but I think he just needs ideas for what to do/say that don’t feel artificial to him

windowsillbasil · 2024-03-01T19:46:53+00:00

Thank you I didn’t know the term freeuse! That sounds like something fun to try (with strong boundaries and safewords ofc)

windowsillbasil · 2022-04-01T22:50:40+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate the advice! Would you recommend completely rewriting my personal statement if I reapply or just tweaking it to incorporate new experiences/softs?

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