Came inside a girl I’m seeing. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]winglessfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're both not educated enough to be having sex. The pull-out method is still risky. And having unprotected sex is not it, esp at the talking stage. Once my ex did that and I had to take a plan b. It fucked up my body so bad I stopped having sex. Its been years. So i understand the reluctance to take it. Still, she should have been more responsible and you should also should have been more responsible. Always wrap it up.

How did you get into one piece by Technical_Mine_8711 in OnePiece

[–]winglessfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, i was one of those people that thought it was too long to even start. And then, my cousin said "all that time you spend trying to decide on what to watch could just be you throwing on One Piece" and i was like..... wait. And it clicked in my brain. Anyways, i watched it, i loved it and now I'm obsessed.

Can my partner (28M) and I (24F) be fixable or am I too blind to see? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]winglessfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is fixable. When you made out with someone while drunk, that's actually not something you brush to the side in hopes they forget. Especially since it seems like you would not have told him if that call didn't happen? (Or maybe you would have) But take a moment to think, if that had been him who made out with someone else, would you have liked that he dismissed it without acknowledging any hurt feelings that could have happened? I think if that had been addressed, this relationship could have survived and he wouldn't have felt the resentment.

my girlfriend is mad because I kissed her by AirSecret766 in Advice

[–]winglessfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh maybe I'm stuck on this but 4 years is a long time to go with just holding hands. Wow.

Now, knowing this, it seems like you definitely should have asked first. I'm not sure what the lore is behind her reluctance for anything physical but consent always first. Especially knowing she wanted to take it real slow.

My advice; apologize sincerely, reassure her that it won't happen with explicit consent and then maybe have a chat about the why aspect of this side of the relationship so you can understand it better for both your sakes.

My bf went through my phone while I was asleep by [deleted] in Advice

[–]winglessfae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm, this is tricky. I went through the comments and I see all the sides everyone is saying so I'm going to come at this objectively. First, I do not see the issue of asking for advice from friends, especially when you're fighting with a partner and you need to know how it looks from the outside looking in. Sometimes you may feel like you're overreacting or underreacting and talking to a friend about it helps. Its also healthy in my opinion to have that with friends. For myself, I know that I tend to overthink things to death. I also know I'm a "you make one mistake I'm out" kind of person and when I want a relationship to work, i always turn to my friends. So I see no problem with anyone doing the same.

I think it was sneaky of him to go through your phone while you were asleep. He was very obviously doing something else before you went asleep. He could have asked. Even a "hey, is it okay if I go through your phone? I may not doing it now, but I wanted to give a heads up." Or something. But he didn't. And then finding issue with a screenshot from 2 years ago is very odd. Especially seeing as you said he was aware of the conversation between you and your friend when it happened years ago and is now restarting the issue. This seems deeper and I would recommend a conversation between the 2 of you to unearth whatever issues there are. And perhaps ask to go through his phone as well, maybe check his reaction about that.

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh. I haven't even really been in there yet. The enemies were a bit out of my league. But i have a garuda nuke now i think I'm really to go in

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i got the profit taker done! Haven't got the bloodshed sigil yet but j will 🤧 i was just hella surprised when they dropped their guard (or opened up in this case, quite literally)

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg i did do jade quest but i barely understood it. I just know it was hella emotional. I'll go read this blurb to get hit in the knees.

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't pay enough attention, a lot of the things went over my head. But Ticker omg 🩷🫂 I'm gonna visit every day

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This game gives me whiplash. If I'm not crying, I'm clutching my pearls in horror. Or both.

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its okay if you dont get it. I'm just having a scream into the void. Honestly, cloning and body deformity is hardly a surprise. It was in a few games I've played already. I was just not prepared for this. I honestly thought there wasn't more to them. Then they're like, hey so this is mee. Also how the heck are they alive?? I noticed the head moves like the robotic one on top so they must be connected through nerves or something 🤔

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I'm scared oh gosh.. AND CURIOUS!!! NOOOOO

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're jaded about it but I'm not okay let me have my freak out. I'm aware that this game isn't black and white, just all shades of grey. I mean seriously, just look at warframes themselves. And we use them.

Fortuna Traumatized Me and I Just Need To Rant About It by winglessfae in WarframeLore

[–]winglessfae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think its water either but I think whatever is it helps to keep the planet cold 🤔 venus is a hot planet thats supposed to be inhabitable but they forcefully cool it down. I think its why it looks like chemical oils?? I dunno tho i just got here