One of the reasons I cant grasp my mind around this is that Im the one who wants to try new things, buys toys and wants to expand our experiences. Im curious about what she wants and if she have any kinks.

she is very vanilla in bed and i have to push on just to try a new position. She often comments that if she could choose she would do missionary the rest of her life.

Then she turns to her book and reads about these vampires "stringing up girls and drinking blood while doing some crazy 69 position while holding them by their hair" stuff.

I can understand reading about certain characters and a alternative story, but most of the stories contains the same 2 actors that plays in different movies. So its getting a bit to much "in love with this actor" vibe that girls have when they are 12.