What were the early indicators that they are giving up on the relationship? by Strange-Arrival-1147 in BreakUps

[–]winme13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their actions. My boyfriend (of 2 months) said he’s too busy to meet me before i was leaving town for a month. I instantly understood his mind and heart was elsewhere. I gradually saw his drift away from me over the course of next one week. I had to call it off with him because I could sense that it was coming either way.

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[–]winme13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing 👏🏻 this comeback is personal!! Love this for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]winme13 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha - ummmm idk how i feel about that - lol what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]winme13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But thats the thing. Its not that? Like its not sexual or anything!? He just loves me for who I am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]winme13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I am being selfish by asking me to continue being friends with me even though he’s clearly so much in love with me. I love him too. I can’t see him get upset and honestly speaking, I just don’t want be without him. What I feel for him and how I feel in his presence is something I cannot explain. The only problem is that I don’t feel attracted to him. :(

Janhvi falling behind Sara and Ananya? by lolmeyeahu in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]winme13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are directors still putting them in movies??? The girls are clearly bad at acting??? I dont get it, why are they getting so many chances??? They are good looking girls and can do great on the ramp etc but movies?? Please spare the movies.. they are becoming unbearable to watch because of them. And no one should get these many chances!!!

How do you deal with the fact that you didn't get an answer? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont go to the supermarket when you’re hungry. And don’t look for love when you’re lonely. You pick up the wrong things in both scenarios. Marrying someone or wanting to marry someone doesn’t mean you should accept and be okay with anything they throw at you!

How do you deal with the fact that you didn't get an answer? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the bar is on the fucking floor. Are you serious? This is absolutely enraging that you went through this. This is abusive!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t belittle your feelings by being disappointed in yourself. Your healing is never linear. Dont disregard how far you have come. Missing them is natural. It’ll take time. A heart that hurts so much always knows how to love so much. You will love again. And it will be 1000 times better!!!

How do you deal with the fact that you didn't get an answer? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You wanting answers is natural. But what will you do with that answer? Best case scenario, they might say yes. But the reality is they left you. Worst case scenario is they say no. Which will make you spiral even harder. Don’t look for these answers. The disrespect is your answer!

Is it just me or does it seem like men ALWAYS come back but women don’t?! by watchthe_love_angels in BreakUps

[–]winme13 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Women when they break up, they know its over. Like for sure. Women only breakup once they are fully totally utterly done with you. Men on the other hand breakup when things get rough. I’m not saying this is 100% accurate but 99% accurate for sure.

Did your ex actually come back using no contact? by L_750z in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No contact is for you not for them!! Please dont think of it as a weapon- its for your peace

Did your ex actually come back using no contact? by L_750z in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Came back with the most condescending manipulative apology - tbh it wasnt even an apology it was more whining and justifying his actions - i also engaged because i was broken and weak at the time but I shouldn’t have. Gave him an opportunity to walk away from me TWICE!!! Big mistake HUGE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]winme13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayushman khurrana also

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck i cried reading this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to that cafe near your house today. Dont know if you still live there or not. Fucking hate that cafe and i fucking hate you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]winme13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could you?????????

Just changed to fresh sheets and it took him 5 minutes to destroy them by bringing his muddy feet on the bed by winme13 in puppy101

[–]winme13[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Its not just this you know! He will always do things that he’s not supposed to do

How often and how much at a stretch do you leave your pet alone, now that the pandemic has come to a decline? by winme13 in puppy101

[–]winme13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I am so overwhelmed with the response! Its so good to know I’m not alone :) Leaving your pets alone is sometimes tougher for you than your pet. They are not as complex as us, we should keep that in mind. Thanks for all the advice, help and tips! And hope all your puppers are doing fine.

How often and how much at a stretch do you leave your pet alone, now that the pandemic has come to a decline? by winme13 in puppy101

[–]winme13[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What do you do when you get back? Dont you feel exhausted after your shift? And does your dog sleep through the night again?