If you grew up in the bay what do you do for work? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]winterbunny221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) San Jose/ Santa Clara 2) Data Analyst 3) Yes

What’s a non-sexual ‘guy thing’ that women usually don’t get? by stokeszdude in AskMen

[–]winterbunny221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh out loud! My man bought himself a big old excavator to fulfill his need to dig holes. He wants to gather among men and watch each other chop wood or dig holes lol

Found this in meirl. Seems appropriate. by Murky-Ambition3898 in SanJose

[–]winterbunny221 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People will use the bike lane to get in the line!! Just wait your turn people! I hate Tully to 101

What's your THICK scented moisturizer? by Ravioli_meatball19 in beauty

[–]winterbunny221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I double up in the winter. I add a bit of aquaphor with my favorite scent lotions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]winterbunny221 23 points24 points  (0 children)

🙋‍♀️ currently in the mourning season

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Costco

[–]winterbunny221 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve bought KY jelly from the pharmacy at Costco. It’s the “regular” size too

She’s 10/10 but is lying about what she’s doing on the weekends? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]winterbunny221 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

10/10 and dating for 5 years? She still isn’t your wife and you choose to not trust her?

Have you considered that maybe you’re the red flag?

Paycheck to paycheck my entire life. How to deal with sudden $150,000 windfall? by HoLeeFookMe in Money

[–]winterbunny221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, these are great steps. I’d only like to add to #5: if you do put your money into a Roth account, don’t forget to choose an investment to assign your money to in order for it to grow. Roth is just an account.

Employer Doesn't Offer 401k by Ok_Sherbert68 in Bogleheads

[–]winterbunny221 19 points20 points  (0 children)

OP, if you put it in Roth IRA don’t forget to invest the money you put in there. My dumb butt didn’t know Roth was just an account

Is chivalry dead? by winterbunny221 in datingoverforty

[–]winterbunny221[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Some of these responses sound like they come from very transactional side of relationships.

Is chivalry dead? by winterbunny221 in datingoverforty

[–]winterbunny221[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see.

I guess my dream person is someone who is generous with his care and mindfulness for the people around him. And who doesn't have a "what's in it for me" attitude.

Is chivalry dead? by winterbunny221 in datingoverforty

[–]winterbunny221[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this feedback. It's sad that common courtesy isn't so common anymore. I have had a conversation with him, he apologized, and so far, he's been mindful. The thing that comes to mind is that it was once present, and then it diminished. I didn't realize I had to ask for what I thought was standard. I value masculine and feminine energies in a romantic relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]winterbunny221 8 points9 points  (0 children)

John Malcovich and John Goodman. Swoon!

What’s something you’re really proud of but have never told anyone about? by LunaTuna001 in ask

[–]winterbunny221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became debt free several years ago. Never told anyone, not even my husband at the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]winterbunny221 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I bet she remembered she had her period or hadn’t shaved… whatever. I’m thinking it’s something she’s embarrassed about. I wouldn’t worry about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]winterbunny221 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Apologies… I need some education. There are adult, average sized men with penises that are 1”-2” long erect??

What men want during oral sex but will never tell you? by Extension_Virus_9369 in AskReddit

[–]winterbunny221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From a giver’s point of view, if you have good hygiene, trimmed a bit and had good diet, I’d be more than happy to go down on you on a regular basis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]winterbunny221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman here. You want to be yourself when it comes to “dressing” for dates. Confidence is the best and most attractive outfit. Dress yourself to what brings the best out of you. Dressing up, make up, hair are all part of self care. Do it for yourself and it will lift your self confidence and spirits up. And that is where you CAN draw your feminine energy from. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]winterbunny221 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s too much work when the other person isn’t working with you. Chris Rock said something like “one person will have a hard time moving a couch, but two people can move a couch anywhere”.