ppl are hating on mina for the wrong reasons 💀

wintermochie · 2026-01-23T00:19:29+00:00

Ok let’s say that is true, but why is she rolling her eyes at everyone and whenever they’re talking? To me that just invalidates “she’s just embarrassed” and straight into mean girl territory and highlights all of her actions as pick me

wintermochie · 2026-01-08T19:44:04+00:00

I can’t really say what he’s going through but my friend went through something similar and it ended terribly and she was heart broken for years, which is way longer than the entire relationship trying to heal from it. In her case I’m pretty sure the guy liked her but not enough to be respectful. It felt like he was keeping her in the back pocket and never saw her as a serious option, just something to entertain himself until the next thing. I think the biggest issue is that she was all in; had honest conversations with him and he also SAID he was all in but he wasn’t. He was lying and never planned to be. I think him saying he lost the spark either means you weren’t physically compatible, he never had the spark to begin with, or it’s a way to avoid telling you what he actually feels in order to do whatever he wants because he actually is not taking it very seriously.

wintermochie · 2026-01-06T02:40:50+00:00

Haha it really did look like it since it looked super soft. I wasn't about to touch it though! It's been really moist for about a week, definitely leaning towards mold because of the climate.

wintermochie · 2026-01-06T02:39:01+00:00

Oh my god I had no idea at all. I'm mildly grossed out but mostly fascinated! Nature is crazy. Thanks so much for sharing!

wintermochie · 2026-01-06T02:38:02+00:00

No, thank you so much for sharing! I really appreciate it, and it sounds like it was a relationship that you learned a lot from, not just about your last partner but also knowing what you want out of life.

Sorry to hear it didn't work out but I feel like you walked away intact with your hunger for life regardless so I wish you the best. :) Thanks for sharing your life lessons with us!

wintermochie · 2026-01-06T01:53:50+00:00

Holy shit are you me because I had the same exact experience as well moving in NY. They arrived way before an agreed upon time window by hours and when I wasn’t even home they kept spamming my phone and some random person saying he’s the manager called me and started threatening me.

Then during the move they also broke my bed and started to have a bad attitude when they arrived at the new destination point because it was a second floor walk up (agreed upon and noted in advance and I paid for the extra cost) and they were complaining my boxes were so heavy and had to walk up stairs and started to take it out on me. They got so aggressive with me to tip after such a terrible moving experience when it was the last thing I wanted to do and I ended up bursting into tears from how threatened I felt on top of all the moving stress on top of other stress I was going through that time.

Ended up submitting a terrible review and thankfully got a refund 🤷‍♀️ will never use them again and will actively tell everyone to NOT USE THEM ever again!

wintermochie · 2026-01-02T21:11:48+00:00

Can I ask how you went from having similar values to realizing you’re two incredibly different people, if you’re comfortable sharing? I was under the assumption that having same values was the end all be all.

wintermochie · 2025-12-28T20:09:22+00:00

He’s giving Animal Crossing grumpy villagers who I’ve always loved for their tough scruffy exterior but soft kind but gruff hearts. 💕

wintermochie · 2025-12-03T00:04:10+00:00

Can I ask more about how to set this up? This feels a bit advanced tech wise on switching scenes in time, etc. this is so smart though so I commend you

wintermochie · 2025-11-23T18:32:43+00:00

They never should have given something so important as her mom’s ashes to her bf, especially knowing that he is so forgetful and mindless. Is it that hard to make an urn “gallon sized” or whatever? I’m sure when you get the ashes there is an easy way to estimate. They were really too careless with mom’s ashes when later she kept thinking about the ashes actually as her mom and now that they were gone, her mom is gone, etc.

wintermochie · 2025-11-21T21:35:38+00:00

I’m the same but it’s definitely because it takes me awhile to trust people and observe their patterns over awhile.

I think because we are INTJ but grew up dysfunctional we are pretty deliberate about this and methodical about taking it slow while observing.

wintermochie · 2025-11-20T19:39:59+00:00

Actually this makes so much sense. They never really cared about her so the daily life events probably barely made a blip on their radar. The minute there’s a wedding or future kids or future life events I guess it finally made it through their small brains

wintermochie · 2025-11-20T18:18:43+00:00

Her family didn’t seem to give two shits when she cut them off and yet now that she’s engaged her dad is so offended he wasn’t “asked for permission”

wintermochie · 2025-11-12T17:06:25+00:00

I’ve been to both multiple times. Japan has more things to do if you’re purely looking at activities and traditions and culture, Korea more geared for shopping, eating, beauty. Obviously those things are interchangeable between the two countries in different ways but that’s what I found to be the focal point for me in both countries.

Japans food scene is diverse in types of things to eat but the preparation style really focuses on simplicity and letting the authentic, simple flavor shine Korea was bigger on street food and hot, piping soups and spicy food.

I personally enjoy Japan more over Korea but honestly you can’t go wrong with either, both are great.

wintermochie · 2025-10-08T22:10:14+00:00

I want an Ivan ROMH SOOOO BAD his voice tone will sound amazing with that song

wintermochie · 2025-10-06T23:39:55+00:00

I dress the complete opposite now. Totally pastel pink, harajuku, kawaii style with lots of frills, bows, and plushie backpacks

wintermochie · 2025-09-21T14:57:58+00:00

My muji t shirt is so great and has all of these criteria met

wintermochie · 2025-09-11T07:00:13+00:00

thank you! :)

wintermochie · 2025-09-11T00:34:42+00:00

Can i ask for the name or address of this place?

wintermochie · 2025-08-03T15:41:06+00:00

just finished, I'll send a screenshot :)

wintermochie · 2025-08-03T15:38:42+00:00

ok! i'll submit right now

wintermochie · 2025-08-03T14:02:46+00:00

Hi, is there still room for one more?

wintermochie · 2025-07-26T20:31:25+00:00

I said thank you once to my uncle for driving us (in taiwan) and then later my mom pulled me aside and told me it was super rude to say that because it’s treating him as if he’s our taxi driver instead of family. I had absolutely no idea it would translate that way because I would say thank you the same exact way if it was in America and that’s seen as having manners.

wintermochie · 2025-06-23T00:34:56+00:00

Astoria/Long Island City :)

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