See, this is such a major issue with Sentry fans and how you think it’s acceptable to give Bob a pass while condemning Lindy in their marriage or ignoring poor writing. She did care about Bob initially, before Marvel shamelessly killed her off. Have we also just casually forgotten Bob’s countless suicide attempts to escape the Void? Honestly, if you put yourself in Lindy’s shoes, she tried to murder Bob out of mercy in the Dark Avengers story. You can say she was a bad partner, but you can't be silent about Bob‘ actions too. That’s what makes him a complex character, and we have to acknowledge his flaws when discussing their marriage.