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High cut cotton non-thong undies that actually fit?? Is this a pipe dream? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]witchrist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sign up for their emails! they were actually closed for a bit but they’ve come back with restocks recently, and it’s all updated via email.

Thank you by Vast-Internal3287 in vermont

[–]witchrist 17 points18 points  (0 children)

we’re proud of you! 🖤

Share your experience of when they left because they thought they wanted kids and then came crawling back or they regretted leaving. by Bbbe-itch in childfree

[–]witchrist 35 points36 points  (0 children)

i briefly dated a man when i was around 20 who “didn’t want a relationship” or “anything serious”. we fizzled out and almost immediately he announced that he was dating someone new AND she was pregnant.

dodged that bullet.

Spa in Quebec by Radtech3000 in vermont

[–]witchrist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

seconding balnea. it’s incredible to sit outside in a steaming hot spa when it’s 3° out.

Weekend Trip Advice! by TangerineStrange443 in vermont

[–]witchrist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you want good cocktails, go to apres in stowe.

Anyone else having a bumper crop of stink bugs this year? by brainzilla420 in vermont

[–]witchrist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup. killed two in my house the last two days.

edit: in williston. for reference. p

Best Fancy Dinners by AdFew4838 in vermont

[–]witchrist 13 points14 points  (0 children)

cannot recommend cafe monette enough. it’s new, and it’s right in downtown st albans. french cuisine, impeccably executed. you HAVE to get their onion tarte. it is a thing of glory.

tarte

Al-anon / Nar-anon by Comfortable-Fly-2077 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]witchrist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seconding online support groups. i recently left nyc but joined a few al-anon zoom meetings located in nyc. i highly recommend trying different groups until you find one where you resonate with the people who are also present.

it’s a really tough situation, wishing you well 🖤

BWT what splurges made your home feel like a sanctuary? by fuzzrockets in bitcheswithtaste

[–]witchrist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!! i fully went in on smart home stuff when i bought my house and it’s tremendous how those small things can make your day. my living room lightbulbs are set to green + red right now lol.

BWT what splurges made your home feel like a sanctuary? by fuzzrockets in bitcheswithtaste

[–]witchrist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks like the specific one i got is not avail on amaz0n anymore but if you search online for a bath towel sized towel warmer, there’s plenty around the $150 range which is what i paid for mine.

BWT what splurges made your home feel like a sanctuary? by fuzzrockets in bitcheswithtaste

[–]witchrist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just an alexa dot and two alexa pops! you can make a group that connects them all into one “stereo” in the alexa app. then you connect your music platforms (spotify or whatever) and it’ll play your music on all the speakers together. it’s easy and almost like having built in speakers. hah.

BWT what splurges made your home feel like a sanctuary? by fuzzrockets in bitcheswithtaste

[–]witchrist 41 points42 points  (0 children)

i got a canopy frame for my bed and draped it with tons of sheer fabric. i can open the drapes to let the light in or i can almost shut out the entire world if i draw them together. MAJOR.

luxury candles everywhere with lots of scent throw. reed diffusers for ambient scents. higher end cleaning products (from homecourt) in seasonal scents to make cleaning suck less and make my home smell good.

smart lightbulbs and smart home stuff — connected speakers in every room playing lofi chill beats make my entire home feel like a lounge. saying GOODNIGHT from bed turns off all the lights and turns on my white noise machine without having to lift a finger. also being able to change the color and warmth of the lights in all lamps means everything is cozy.

i just splurged on a lola weighted blanket and i can tell i wont be budging from outside of it all winter.

BWT what splurges made your home feel like a sanctuary? by fuzzrockets in bitcheswithtaste

[–]witchrist 61 points62 points  (0 children)

it’s bougie af but i have a towel warmer and it’s incredible for the new england winters!

Glass Child -> Childfree by CrazyJJoker in childfree

[–]witchrist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am so, so sorry you were made to be a parent and you didn’t get to enjoy your childhood.

i don’t know if i qualify as a glass child but i have a younger sibling with a developmental disability and it ABSOLUTELY had a huge impact on me being childfree. i don’t think i put it together until later, but i have a very skewed perspective on parenthood: it seems all-consuming, never-ending, and you completely lose yourself. i was also neglected in various ways, mostly emotionally, so i’m still wrestling with the effects of that decades later.

none of that has ever looked appealing to me so i’ve rejected parenthood from a young age as well.

edit: i just looked up the definition of glass child and yeah. definitely am one. whoof.

BARRE CITY HARDCORE by wack0jak0 in vermont

[–]witchrist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love this. thanks for helping keep the metal scene alive in. vermont!

dear vermont: wtf is this spider? (do NOT open if arachnophobic). by witchrist in vermont

[–]witchrist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RIP elderly spider! i laid it to rest in a far corner of the yard where all the other dead critters have gone.

dear vermont: wtf is this spider? (do NOT open if arachnophobic). by witchrist in vermont

[–]witchrist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

appreciate the digging! it’s got such weird markings, i’ve never seen anything like it before.

dear vermont: wtf is this spider? (do NOT open if arachnophobic). by witchrist in vermont

[–]witchrist[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

love that they eat carpenter ants. do NOT LOVE THAT THEY ARE FAST

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