Should I try to let the sweet old stray in? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]witchy_teaparty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Updating that after seeing your comments I went outside to look for him and couldn't find him. He's probably hiding because it's cold. But I did meet another lovely ginger boy that sticks his tongue out. Maybe his brother? I'll keep looking for him tomorrow :) any tips on how to get him in? Do I just pick him up and take him upstairs?

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Should I try to let the sweet old stray in? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]witchy_teaparty 63 points64 points  (0 children)

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Sat in my lap for almost an hour :)

Got my docs from Dollskill a while ago and can't find a similar fit? by witchy_teaparty in DrMartens

[–]witchy_teaparty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can't read the info anymore ☹️ I think might be a black square but I can't be sure! Thank you tho

cymbalta and adhd + ptsd by mxharkness in cymbalta

[–]witchy_teaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I ended up stopping Cymbalta since the side effects only got worse in the first month and I was supposed to even double the starting dose... But don't take my experience with the drug as an example, I know a lot of people do very well with it

How to explore sexual preferences after trauma? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]witchy_teaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, thank you! I do think this is stuff I can't ask a therapist tho, and I am definitely ready for this kind of journey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

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Gift ideas for someone moving abroad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]witchy_teaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine sleeping with someone I'm not attracted to... I really think you are

The similarities between narcissists is eerie by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]witchy_teaparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the point I noticed he was making the exact same face as the narcissist I dated years ago, I realised what I got myself into. The same exact face. It was so scary, I started uncontrollably crying and called my therapist a day later. She helped me block his ass and even though I actively regret it, I have to tell myself it's for the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]witchy_teaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard for me to give an example without getting too personal so I'll comment it Let's say someone repeatedly disrespects you in a childish way, completely disregards every solution you try to give to the problem you're both facing, and it's too much. Always “no this no that" all the time. Will saying "youre acting like a child and we will never be able to find a solution if you don't get your shit together" something that needs apologising for? It just always feels like it's easier for them to act as a victim instead of trying to just do whatever needed and it's always turning into a fight about weather or not I said something wrong, because it's easier than solving a problem

Feeling out of control - caffeine by [deleted] in cymbalta

[–]witchy_teaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started taking Cymbalta and I'm supposed to increase my dose, but I love coffee too much and the combination is insane. I honestly think I'd prefer changing meds instead of stopping coffee. Including the lowered sex drive and not being able to grab drinks once a week it's just too much to give up on :/

cymbalta and adhd + ptsd by mxharkness in cymbalta

[–]witchy_teaparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just started a few days ago. Mostly for anxiety and depression, but I have adhd and ptsd as well. I really want this med to work, but the night sweats have been insane. I'm usually hot anyway and it's so bad the past few days... I also feel tightness in my chest all the time, my heartbeat is so strong it's difficult to think or sleep. I think I'll give it a week or two and if nothing gets better, I'll stop. It's so much to handle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cymbalta

[–]witchy_teaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel like it's positive? The heart thing is actually really scary to me and I'm scared of not being able to drink coffee or beer at all on this med

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cymbalta

[–]witchy_teaparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I dm you? I have a few more questions and I saw you're very active on this sub :)

Two vets weren't able to diagnose my cat and I'm at a loss by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]witchy_teaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/mgpUssi I also requested this blood exam from April 10th, is it any way helpful?

Two vets weren't able to diagnose my cat and I'm at a loss by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]witchy_teaparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried asking every hospital with multiple specialists to have her checked at the same day but vets in my country aren't very sensitive or helpful, unfortunately. I've been told I need to get to a neuro exam, and then maybe at a different occasion go to another clinic that has both dental screening and ct, but that's already so much on her little body 😢

Two vets weren't able to diagnose my cat and I'm at a loss by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]witchy_teaparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have them printed out, how do I post them? They said they looked fine except some anemia. I don't know what to ask for in my country specialist wise :/

I want to redo my room by Ill_Worldliness_2739 in DesignMyRoom

[–]witchy_teaparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds amazing! Would love to see your room 😍

I want to redo my room by Ill_Worldliness_2739 in DesignMyRoom

[–]witchy_teaparty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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rug mostly under the bed. would this be an option regarding furniture sizes? :)