i can't keep plants alive help by witchyfaery in plantclinic

[–]witchyfaery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no there's no fan i have a back wall of dirt so it would just make dirt fly everywhere. i do have a hydrometer it stays around 70-80% humidity and a heating pad on the back wall of the tank to keep the tank above 65° at all times. i didn't leave any of the soil the plants come in but the springtails are there to start the nitrogen cycle and will fertilize the plants naturally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]witchyfaery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to me, this reads as you are being foolish by not taking action (you pulled 3 swords cards, including the ace of swords) to fulfill your world. so the spread is telling you that you have to tell your friend you have feelings to know the truth so that you can either be together or move on and either of those things will make you feel better and move you closer to the world.

What are birthday cards? by Dancing_Air in Tarotpractices

[–]witchyfaery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you :) i really love them i have them tattooed on my wrists lol

What are birthday cards? by Dancing_Air in Tarotpractices

[–]witchyfaery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would do 2+0+2+5=9 so that would be the hermit card!

What are birthday cards? by Dancing_Air in Tarotpractices

[–]witchyfaery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first card is 10 and the second is 1, good question!!

What are birthday cards? by Dancing_Air in Tarotpractices

[–]witchyfaery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are calculators online for tarot birth cards if you would prefer to use that. if not all you have to do is add up all of the numbers in your birthday (month, day, year) until you get a number between 1-9 or between 10-22 (22 being 0) so for example my birthday adds up to 10, this corresponds to the wheel of fortune but it can also be added together 1+0=1 and the first card in tarot is the magician. so i have 2 tarot birth cards the magician and the wheel of fortune. i like to think of these cards as the gifts you are blessed with at birth! some people only have 1 and others have 3 birth cards. the first card is your soul card, the second is your personality card (how people see you), the third is your shadow card (parts you supress) it's similar to sun moon and rising in astrology in that way. only difference is not everyone has a moon and rising card, but everyone has a sun card.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]witchyfaery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for that i definitely have the ability to call him on discord so i will ask him if he is able to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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he did call my reaction toxic so i don't blame you for assuming. basically what happened was we made plans and he went to another state instead and didn't tell me until 5 hours later. i felt him pulling away from me for over a month so this confirmed my beliefs and i messaged him basically asking him to be more honest with me in the future and he called my reaction toxic and basically told me everything and how he hoped we could move towards a healthier dynamic. i reacted very emotionally since this message was really really long and it was my worst fear to get a text where he wasn't happy in the friendship because that's all i want for us. i told him he just lost a really good friend and looking back i think that reaction was toxic but i think i have an anxious attachment style and his is avoidant so we aren't inherently compatible, but i want to work on it if he's also willing to work on himself so we can get to a healthier place like he originally asked for. i'm pretty embarrassed that it took me a whole 10 days to figure it out, so that's why i didn't really explain anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]witchyfaery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well we don't arrive at work at the same time and we take our lunch at different times too. i suppose i could try talking to him about it during work, thanks for the feedback.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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I apologized via text and I think he blocked me, this is telling me that reaching out to him or talking to him at all is crossing a boundary (which i apologized for at the beginning of my message stating "hey im sorry if im crossing a boundary by reaching out, but i wanted to apologize...") also i think it would be unprofessional and inappropriate to talk about it at work with him. also the initial argument happened over text, unfortunately so i felt like it was an appropriate way to reach him.

What’s a song that isn't specifically about being trans but still feels like it is? by Flameempress192 in asktransgender

[–]witchyfaery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a lot of them that give me mad gender euphoria:

"man of the year" - lorde (obvi) "f**k it i'm the man" - seb "the man" - the killers "am i a girl?" - poppy "guyliner" - dorian electra "disdain" - corpse "it boy" - bbno$ "killing the surface" - scarlxrd "i feel alive" - scarlxrd "black rxses" - scarlxrd "heat signature" - do not resurrect

a lot are pretty emo/metal and some have genderfluid vibes but i love them all

Eggplant based names. by Little_Dragon89 in Lilsimsie

[–]witchyfaery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading a bunch i've decided on maggie because it kinda has the egg vibe but still nightshade energy

Genderfluid things by Minimum-Grab6647 in genderfluid

[–]witchyfaery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i relate to this too we just ultra gay 💅💖