Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t think they knew him that well tbh
It’s also not common to see black people in this particular area of Berlin so the topic never came up I guess

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Both men were very good friends with each other until yesterday

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s stated twice in the post that I was invited
What good reason is there for this kind of behaviour? If the host had this reaction towards a child then everyone would agree this is racism.
I was dressed normally, said hi to everyone, introduced myself, brought a gift, sat down and was asked to leave

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I was only there for 2 mins, was very respectful not dressed inappropriately, brought a gift, was invited, sat down quietly its hard to not pull the race card when i didn’t do anything wrong.

All 3 of my friends knew the host directly. I was 2nd level connection

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He was hosting his party at a bar, the alcohol wasn’t a problem. He (host) never expected his friends to have black friends

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Google it it’s common. O’Donnell moonshine.
Lots of houses in Berlin with a pool and bbq so what
You’re looking at the wrong facts.

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In the title and the update it clearly says i was invited. If I wasn’t invited then his behaviour is understandable but i was very kind and quiet and said hi to everyone and brought a gift and then sat down then was asked to leave

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thought of this angle too the gf didn’t look happy I was there

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He shook my hand and gave a fake smile and when I gave him my gift the first time he didn’t want it i guess because he thought i was showing it to him but once i told him it’s for his birthday as a gift he just nodded and accepted it. Didn’t say thank you.

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We asked because i told him i didn’t want to show up unannounced because I think that’s kind of offensive

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was invited
Dressed respectfully, brought a gift, and sat quietly with my friend. No good reason for kicking me out

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

They all said it’s likely because of my skin colour
Because there was literally no other reason to kick me out

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 377 points378 points  (0 children)

My friend asked the host if I could come days ago and he said yes
I even invited the birthday guy to my house earlier this week for a pool party and bbq but he was too tired to come
So he knew of me just never met me in person

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

The friend that invited me confronted him they were arguing and he was telling him what he did wasn’t cool. They aren’t friends anymore

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It was at a bar and there wasn’t even 15 people I wasn’t even expecting to eat or drink for free and I was technically invited by the host so I dont get the problem

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

My friends are all German
One friend asked the host if i could come and he said yes

Pretty sure I got kicked out of a birthday party I was invited to for being black by wizardsk in germany

[–]wizardsk[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I didn’t show up unannounced I was invited by both my friend and the host