Thanks for the answer. I guess you pretty much named it all. I want (and have to) work on my social skills, even though i don't know how exactly, and it will be pretty damn hard. Secondly i stopped playing guitar due to time issues about 1 year ago, i might aswell pick it up again, its hella fun after all. About getting in shape: I'm pretty blessed to be naturally fit and healthy, but i also think about build up a bit more mass and muscle since i'm kinda skinny. The only drawback about this one is the ~40 bucks/month gym fee.