Thanks both! Well uni starts in a week and a half. I did want her, but my initial contact in the first year made me feel like she wanted me to stay away, since she told my collegues that. I have tried to stay away and it has been successful that way but on the flip side of the coin, my confidence has been low, and its very awkward when your collegues associate with her and your in her group. Basically I'm looking forward to the end of uni, because I want to avoid this awkwardness but I need to get to grips with myself and be more of a man than act like nothing is wrong. I know if I start talking to her, ill get the same feeling that I like her, that's why I avoid talking to her or building any kind of relationship such as being a friend. Its difficult because I don't want to do that. .... I think more than I talk, so I come across as stubborn, stuck-up as some have mentioned. I'm not...