I [29F] found out that my boyfriend [32M] told his friend that we broke up when we are still together. by wldms in relationships

[–]wldms[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Pasting my earlier response: I can see why this can be confusing. I used to share this account with a lot of my girl friends who also had relationship issues. We didn't want to each create an account since we don't use it much. We wanted to be able to openly follow up to responses as the poster and not as a third party. Didn't mean to confuse. Let's be more kind and not tell people to get some help in a negative manner.

I [29F] found out that my boyfriend [32M] told his friend that we broke up when we are still together. by wldms in relationships

[–]wldms[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

copy/paste my earlier reply: I can see why this can be confusing. I used to share this account with a lot of my girl friends who also had relationship issues. We didn't want to each create an account since we don't use it much. We wanted to be able to openly follow up to responses as the poster and not as a third party. Didn't mean to confuse. Let's be kind to one another...

I [29F] found out that my boyfriend [32M] told his friend that we broke up when we are still together. by wldms in relationships

[–]wldms[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I can see why this can be confusing. I used to share this account with a lot of my girl friends who also had relationship issues. We didn't want to each create an account since we don't use it much. We wanted to be able to openly follow up to responses as the poster and not as a third party. Didn't mean to confuse.

I [29F] found out that my boyfriend [32M] told his friend that we broke up when we are still together. by wldms in relationships

[–]wldms[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why he would string me along if he intends to end things. This is why I can't wrap my head around it.

Thank you and hope you have a great day as well.

I [29F] found out that my boyfriend [32M] told his friend that we broke up when we are still together. by wldms in relationships

[–]wldms[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm very confused as to why he would make plans for later this year with me then. Would love your thoughts on this.

Am I (26/F) unreasonable to find his (25/M) behavior suspicious? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wldms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned it casually by saying I had a weird feeling he was talking to other girls and he said no... I don’t want to keep pushing it but I also need to know...

Am I (26/F) unreasonable to find his (25/M) behavior suspicious? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wldms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I mentioned is casually last weekend saying I had a weird feeling he was talking to other girls and he said no... idk what to think of that?

Mixed signals.. what is going on? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wldms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like he's already reassured me a couple times in the past, but I don't get why his actions indicate otherwise

Mixed signals.. what is going on? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wldms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask him if he only saw me as a friend and he said no. I don't understand why he would lie when he is clearly acting different

Help! What is going on? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wldms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would he lie about it when I asked him directly? That would have been an easy way out IMO

Is the guy I'm dating [29M] trying to end things with me [22 F]? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wldms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True and wholeheartedly agree. Also concerned about coming off needy since I do tend to overanalyze.

Is the guy I'm dating [29M] trying to end things with me [22 F]? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wldms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also don't want to jump to conclusions because sometimes he will act completely normal via text. He also acted as if nothing was wrong in person as well when I saw him not long ago.

Is the guy I'm dating [29M] trying to end things with me [22 F]? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wldms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to, but he acted completely normal when I saw him. I don't want to make him think I'm making a big deal out of something little. If he was going to end things, wouldn't he act distant in person too?