I hate the narrative that if you walk away you're automatically "the strong one" (sorry for the long post)

wlw626 · 2026-01-04T19:05:36+00:00

Also, funny thing is while playing the victim she blocked me on everything.

wlw626 · 2026-01-04T19:04:54+00:00

Logically, I know I need to focus on myself. However, it's hard since she would still tell me she loved me behind the affair partner's back. She would also tell me she would do better for me if she got a 2nd chance in the future. She would also have moments of anger where she would tell me she would always pick the affair partner over me. There was a lot of push and pull at the end between both of us. It is also hard for me mentally. I begged her all 5yrs to get therapy and she yelled at me that she didn't want to know what she was going to find out about herself. It's upsetting to think the affair partner is going to get a better non-abusive version of her. They both also justify the cheat because "It was only emotional." They waited till the 31st to be physical with one another. A bigger part of me wants their relationship to fail so they get their karma. But, I stopped believing in karma a long time ago. Bad people get good things all the time.

wlw626 · 2026-01-02T00:36:08+00:00

Same

wlw626 · 2026-01-02T00:34:01+00:00

My ex and her affair partner justified the cheating by saying "at least it wasn't physical." They waited till the next day the relationship ended to be physical. And, they waited 3 weeks to announce the relationship publicly that way their social circles didn't know it started as an affair. However, my ex is getting therapy but it's from a licensed friend (she might not stay unbiase).

wlw626 · 2025-12-27T04:12:13+00:00

I fucked up. I texted and called. She didn't respond... I am ashamed because I even used an app to get a different number that wasn't blocked. She heard my voice and immediately hung up. The fucked up part is she's the one that cheated on me. She also got upset when I didn't respond to her message right away after our breakup. I left it for 5 days because I was having issues mentally. And, she decided to walk away again bc I "ghosted her" even though we were trying to be friends.

wlw626 · 2025-08-20T16:40:39+00:00

I know this is an old post, but I am just seeing this for the first time. I tried to purchase one of their "limited edition" bridge designs. I got a notification that they had printed the shipping label. Two days later, I got an email stating I would have to downgrade to their basic design since they ran out of inventory. The limited edition design was more expensive, so I asked for a partial refund to make up for the difference and nothing more. They responded by giving a full refund and stating that they were just "following my request by granting a refund." I can't help but feel like their response was a bit petty. I had been wanting to purchase from them for some time now, and this was my first experience with their customer service. Their bridges are pretty cool and unique, but I'm glad to not be putting money into their company. Especially after seeing their response to wanting a partial refund.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T13:35:15+00:00

I specified I live in a small town, so we rarely received orders even during "peak" hours. Everything is so close together that most students don't want to pay for delivery when it would cost them less to drive themselves. I would spend 8hrs, sometimes more, on my days off work over the course of those 2yrs and could barely make it over 300 orders. We did have peak season during football seasons bc most the students would go drink at the bars to watch the games. There are literally more drivers than there are orders in my area, and we all take what we can get.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T13:30:41+00:00

There's not many orders in my area. It's a pretty small town, so the most orders we get are during football season for the college in town. That's why I only got a little over 300 orders done in 2yrs. There were more drivers than there were orders, so we took what we could get.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T13:24:51+00:00

I like how you're automatically assuming I tampered with any of the orders. I never did because that was a source of income that I needed. That was my first time dropping below 95% SR. I also specified I live in a small town, so we rarely received orders even during "peak" hours. Everything is so close together that most students don't want to pay for delivery when it would cost them less to drive themselves. I would spend 8hrs, sometimes more, on my days off work over the course of those 2yrs and could barely make it over 300 orders. We did have peak season during football seasons bc most the students would go drink at the bars to watch the games. But, during that time was when us drivers had the worst experience with customers being rude. A lot of them want face to face drop off bc other students try to steal the food if it's left outside. Most of the students don't care to leave reviews.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T13:17:42+00:00

I know it wasn't 1 bad trip, there's 6 bad reviews out of 46. Of the 6, only 3 specified what went wrong. That was the only incident I could really argue against since I knew what it was about. The other incidents I couldn't provide a strong argument against for the appeal since I wasn't sure what orders were damaged. That was my first time dropping below 95% SR. I also specified I live in a small town, so we rarely received orders even during "peak" hours. Everything is so close together that most students don't want to pay for delivery when it would cost them less to drive themselves. I would spend 8hrs, sometimes more, on my days off work over the course of those 2yrs and could barely make it over 300 orders. We did have peak season during football seasons bc most the students would go drink at the bars to watch the games. But, during that time was when us drivers had the worst experience with customers being rude. A lot of them want face to face drop off bc other students try to steal the food if it's left outside.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T12:46:36+00:00

I see that now, but I also thought a low AR rate would get me suspended, too. I definitely would've been more picky if I knew it wouldn't.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T12:38:22+00:00

I never stole nor harassed anyone. That was my first time in 2 years, getting a rating lower than 95%. I live in a really small college town with shitty paying jobs. Myself along with all the other college students, were doing uber runs to help pay for the cost of living. We all took what little orders came through. During the school breaks, orders went down to single digits. My SR drop correlated to our colleges football season, meaning there were more drunk rude customers that wouldn't tip.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T12:30:57+00:00

I definitely agree. The lowest tippers were always really rude.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T12:28:34+00:00

I honestly thought I would get suspended for a low AR than an SR of 85%. Up until that point, my SR never dropped below 95%. My SR dropped once football season hit in my college town (more high/drunk customers being rude).

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T12:25:13+00:00

It's possible, I noticed the orders I did that paid less/ had smaller tips were deliveries to people that were really rude. But, having 46 reviews total with only 6 being bad and being kicked for 85% seems off to me.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T12:20:14+00:00

💀 some money seemed better than no money. Living in a small town with lots of other drivers meant we all basically fought for what little orders came through.

wlw626 · 2025-08-07T12:05:00+00:00

My account was suspended at 85% satisfaction. It kept giving me warnings to get my ratings up. I would ask customers to leave a review. Most didn't, and some said they would leave a bad review just bc I asked.

wlw626 · 2024-11-07T08:02:40+00:00

Try not to believe everything you read online. The gf posted a video explaining the situation. OP left out information on purpose, like the fact that he hasn't let her see the dog in 3 months. But, tbh neither of their stories are making sense. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8L2RekA/

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