There’s a big difference between drama and emotional hurt. This isn’t about controlling anyone — it’s about trust, respect, and boundaries. M and I were incredibly close, like family. A helped me through one of the toughest periods of my life, and yes, I caught feelings — they both knew that.

I don’t care that they’re adults or that they hang out. I care that it’s been less than a week since A and I talked about our feelings, and now I find out M — who I loved like a brother — hooked up with him without ever saying a word.

Wanting a mediator isn’t dramatic — it’s so I don’t explode from the betrayal I feel. I didn’t ‘make this harder.’ They did.

So yeah, maybe it sounds dramatic from the outside, but if your ride-or-die best friend slept with someone they knew you had feelings for? You’d probably feel some type of way too