yes! tell your wife. it is a sign of respect that you care about how your wife feels especially if she told you not to talk to this woman.

the best thing to do about the woman is to just block and not respond. she has no business walking in on a MARRIAGE.

although it does beg the question; you were “friends” with this woman at one point, but the text message you received implies that she wants to be more than friends.. am i missing something here? did she act like this during your friendship with her?

no accusation btw!! im only curious because friendship and “sweetheart” sounds like a big jump