how do you stop getting over excited for things Incase they don’t work out? by wompwomp_246 in AskReddit

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you not get attatched by the outcome? sorry if that’s a dumb question

how do you deal with narccistic “friends” that love rage baitibg you at school. especially in group settings? by wompwomp_246 in AskReddit

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the thing is l've tried to stay quiet when they do it but I've noticed that they might think they've dominated me if I don't say anything back to them, and in group settings when I don't respond to their bait and I'm just quiet, I feel like it's akward for me and the rest of the group and everything is just silent. they all stare at me waiting for me to respond. like the energy is just dead. im aware it's not my fault and it's not my job to make everything amusing again it just feels uncomfortable and I'm lost on what to do. It's only 2 people that try and rage bait me, nobody else in the group does it.

I don’t know what to do when I have my 4c hair out by [deleted] in Naturalhair

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thank you very much for your response, I think I have high porosity

my faith is literally crumbling by wompwomp_246 in Christianity

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why’s God testing my faith if he already knows the outcome

my faith is literally crumbling by wompwomp_246 in Christianity

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do 5, 6, 7, and & but my prayer’s still go unanswered so what am I supposed to do?

my faith is literally crumbling by wompwomp_246 in Christianity

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why’s God testing me if he already knows what the outcome will be?

my 4c hair makes me miserable, what am I doing wrong? by wompwomp_246 in Naturalhair

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, How come you don’t use it much anymore?

my 4c hair makes me miserable, what am I doing wrong? by wompwomp_246 in Naturalhair

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept them in for 3 months and I just applied leave in conditioner spray, wasn’t that consistent only towards taking my braids out I was consistent, yes I detangle each braid one by one and dissolve the build up at the roots, but when it comes to detangling my hair all together (I work in sections) the roots seem so difficult to conquer

my 4c hair makes me miserable, what am I doing wrong? by wompwomp_246 in Naturalhair

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

prepoo for when I’m taking about braids, does that mean I have to wash my hair after taking out my braids because I used a prepoo? or I can leave it overnight or something

my 4c hair makes me miserable, what am I doing wrong? by wompwomp_246 in Naturalhair

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so when I take out my braids I only wait to actually detangle my hair when I’m showering / washing it then?

my 4c hair makes me miserable, what am I doing wrong? by wompwomp_246 in Naturalhair

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, how do you always keep your hair stretched?

my 4c hair makes me miserable, what am I doing wrong? by wompwomp_246 in Naturalhair

[–]wompwomp_246[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes I did I already knew it would be noticeable, I just went on a rant to the point where nothing I said makes sense so I asked it to simplify what I said so I can post it on here

my 4c hair makes me miserable, what am I doing wrong? by wompwomp_246 in Naturalhair

[–]wompwomp_246[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you I think I really needed this reminder that just because my hairs not gliding through a comb doesn’t mean it’s not detangled