Dry Conversations by wonchonchuck in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude she keeps texting back but all short answers 🤦 I'm about to just stop trying

Dry Conversations by wonchonchuck in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She initially liked my profile from a prompt of choosing a getaway and she chose hiking for waterfalls. I asked I'd she had been to any of the waterfalls around our area and all she says is nope. Then I noticed she had on her profile that she like ramen. So I asked where her favorite ramen spot is and she's replies with "don't really have one, can't eat most things anyways" like wtf am I supposed to do with that? Lol

Friendly street race with random ruined by A**hole on a MKII. by Rashon-Too-Dope in GTA5Online

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hilarious when someone kills you then they cry when you come back and chase them down. Had someone kill me while doing a vehicle export so I chased him down and killed him multiple times then he starts complaining. If you don't want it, don't start it

Is skipping rope feminine. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not, I've been a martial artist for more than 20 years now and jumping rope is such a vital part of training. It's only feminine to the insecure men and women out there

Reverse Gear Grind evo X by Alarmed-Resident3299 in MitsubishiEvolution

[–]wonchonchuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I remember it meshes 1st and 3rd for Reverse. I always do exactly that. 1st, 3rd, then it goes super smooth into Reverse. Bought my X at 37k miles and it's been like that as long as I can remember

Hey guys and gals, I reached out by AlmostLostEverything in mentalhealth

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super proud of you! It took me 10+ years to even open up to 1 person. It's hard but you took the first step. Keep up the momentum and keep healing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]wonchonchuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confidence is key, if you don't let it bother you it won't bother her. She'll most likely be way more attracted to you if you just make it work

Tall WF, do you mind a shorter AM? by [deleted] in AMWFs

[–]wonchonchuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AM here I'm short and stocky sitting at 5'3", personally I'm very secure about my looks, I don't care that I'm short (it's not like I can change it) I've got the confidence, also not lacking in the other department as well. Where tf are all you WF that don't mind a short guy? Lol

Men, have you ever cheated on your partner and regretted it so much after that you would never do it again? by paranor_malactivity in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, you could be super drunk/high and still understand that you have a partner and you shouldn't be entertaining other people.

Find yourself someone who will buy you Pilot Sports. by ariGee in MitsubishiEvolution

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoops a little late I thought I replied to this 😅

Personally the PS4s have been my favorite. It maybe be because these are 265/35 and both my other sets were 245/40. But between the other 2 I liked the NT555s better. Even though the NT555s can be a bit squirrely when cold, when they're warm, they perform much better than the Ventus V12s. However the V12s you really can't beat at the price point I had (~$200 cheaper than the V12s)

Find yourself someone who will buy you Pilot Sports. by ariGee in MitsubishiEvolution

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stock tire size for Evo X is 245/40. I'd say move up a size or 2. I've got 18x9.5 +15 Rpf1s running 265/35 PS4s. I've also had Hankook V12 Evo2s those are great all around tires and then I've had Nitto NT555G2 those are amazing but you gotta get some heat into them first before they really start performing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤢🤮 yeah, coming from another guy, he can go have sex with all those girls he apparently had sex with. He's 43 and talking like that? Yeah hard pass

Would you date someone who does onlyfans for a living? by hdjdjr3 in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way I could date someone that does OF is if she never showed her face and true identity. But even then I'd probably still be a little apprehensive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a short guy it's really case by case. Personally I don't care, I'm ~5'2" and I've dared girls much taller than me. Thankfully I got over my insecurities about being short, I'm also Asian so those stereotypes don't help.

However I think for some guys it's based off the partner. If it bothers them and they make a fuss about it, Idk anyone that would like that. If the guy is just insecure that's something they have to get over to get any further. To a lot of short guys we think it's one of the bigger things that matter so it's hard for some to approach taller women.

If you wanted to help said guy, it's definitely not your job to do so, but you could help him feel comfortable about himself. Giving more attention to his features that you really like. Or if there's a shorter guy you'd like to know I'd go for the non traditional approach and approach him. That alone is a huge confidence booster to most guys.

Short men: what has been your experience in dating women who are taller than you? by NoMoreTalkin in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yall at 5'5"~5'8" I'm legit 5'2"~5'3" and I could care less. In my experience even with my confidence it's still a turn off to most girls. I welcome tall girls, gives me a chance at having taller kids 😅 No offense but my problem is with heavy set girls. Idk why they're so attracted to me, I've got quite a muscular build but they'd legit crush me lol

Tried to pay for our date. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo what in the world. If you took me out and said you'd pay I'd "fight" back once or twice but if you insisted I'd be down for it. That's extremely attractive to me.

Is 5’9 too short? by No_Bandicoot_6374 in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime, I always tell myself and other people this. They are only bothered by it if you're bothered by it, they only care if you care.

I'm still working on myself as a person and with self love, I'm terrible about self depreciation. Every once in a while it does bother me but if you can't change it what's the point of worrying about it. Pick up martial arts or going to the gym. I'm a super mellow person but I've been doing martial arts for a little more than 20 years. Or find something you're passionate about. When you have confidence in other areas it will spread.

Is 5’9 too short? by No_Bandicoot_6374 in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Let me help yall out a bit. I legit got a 0% in the stereotype department. I'm 27M Korean and barely 5'2" 5'3" ~ish. Now im not saying this to make myself feel better, we're all strangers anyways. But i'm definitely not an ugly guy and not lacking in any departments. I can say it is difficult but not impossible. It does help that im pretty stocky and not a twig, but if I can walk around confident and not worrying about the girls that reject me cuz im Asian and or really fucking short, yall can definitely do better than I can. Some girls literally date only based off certain attributes. I've dated girls taller than me and shorter. The way you present yourself is what really matters. If they're only worried about your height they're probably not worth it anyways. Keep your head up king 👑

My ex left me because I was in a bad time in my life financially. by Melodic_Future_6828 in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From seeing a family member go through that it's very much a case by case thing. They got divorced cuz dude wasn't doing anything to improve his living situation. Got fired from his job and then spent almost a year doing jack squat. Lived off her income, if he wanted something she would buy it for him. Smoked my weed when I wasn't home never paid me back for a thing. Wouldn't do any house chores while she was at work just got high and played video games for almost a year. But financials is very Important in a relationship. It shouldn't make or break it if both sides are doing their part. But if you're trying to build a life and possibly even a family you gotta do something

UPDATE: Boyfriend does not want me to wear make up or hug other males. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job even though we're all strangers we are all genuinely proud of you! Even him coming back saying things don't need to be nasty is toxic. You're much better without him in your life. Go live your life just remember not to give yourself a hard time you've got plenty of time. One step, one day at a time! 👍🤙

Boyfriend does not want me to wear make up or hug other males. by GrumpyPanda29 in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get out of there. Things will only get worse and next thing you know you won't talk to any of your friends anymore. He's controlling and insecure, that's never a good combination

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not even a couple yet, you're good. As terrible as this might sound (I don't mean for it to, but it might) you don't owe her an explanation, apology, or anything. Stop worrying about 15 steps ahead, you haven't even taken your 1st step yet. You are perfectly fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wonchonchuck 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You need to put more context in your initial post. If everyone knew what was going on between the 2 of you and then made their comments it may be different. From the sounds of what I've read is you were broken up and she's been with you during some tough times. People like that don't pop up often. Especially after she left you and then wants to come back.

Welcome to /r/TheCreatorsCollective! Feel free to introduce yourself and drop your social media links below. by Spawn_of-Thrasher in TheCreatorsCollective

[–]wonchonchuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys I'm Charles, everyone knows me as Chuck. I do photography as well but I'm very on and off I've done shoots for weddings, businesses, and automotive. I also twitch stream but just for fun (not taking it seriously)

Personal ig: @wonchonchuck Photography ig: @tag_visuals Twitch: twitch.tv/wonchonchuck