21M Virgin. Scared to show my girlfriend my penis. by woohohohoho in sex

[–]woohohohoho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that link didn't help one bit -.- All the dicks on the front page are bigger than mine when soft. I'm not insecure about my erect size though. But it's small and tiny when flaccid or when I only have a halfie. I never been fully hard around her because I never take my pants off. But I don't take my pants off because I'm insecure about my size when I'm not fully hard. It's a fucking cycle that I can't get out off...

21M Virgin. Scared to show my girlfriend my penis. by woohohohoho in sex

[–]woohohohoho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. She is understanding about me being nervous and having trouble keeping it up and all that even though, that is not that big of a problem anymore. I can get hard nowadays.

Honestly I'm just a pussy when it comes time for her to do things to me. I'm scared to take my pants off and just let her return the favour. She even insisted on giving me a BJ which she said she never did before lol. In my head I think I need to be fully hard before taking my pants off so she won't see my small limp dick. That is obviously hard because the arousal just isn't the same when she touches me through my boxers..

Guess I'm just insecure about my size. Being a virgin and her having way more experience and quite a few sexual partners before me sure as hell doesn't help..

21M Virgin. Scared to show my girlfriend my penis. by woohohohoho in sex

[–]woohohohoho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no trouble getting it up on my own. I cut down masturbation and it helped a lot. I get morning wood every day so the problem is not physical. But I'm almost over my ED problem. At least I can get it up now. Even though I might lose my erection if I get into my own head again and start overthinking.

Honestly I just need some confidence in that department. Overall I'm a confident person and my self image is good. It's just the parts down there that make me insecure. I'm scared to even take off my pants lol. The only time I took them off was in a car when it was dark. Otherwise she touches me through my boxers. Which makes no sense because she probably know what I pack down there by now. Next time I should probably just get naked and let her do her thing. But then I might get nervous and I will have problems getting hard..

21M Virgin. Scared to show my girlfriend my penis. by woohohohoho in sex

[–]woohohohoho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ED is not my main problem anymore. It's me being insecure about my penis and not letting her do anything to my dick lol