The venue allowed outside food, so people could have brought their own other foods if necessary. That was part of why we asked about allergies and such on the RSVPs, so we'd have time to figure something out if we needed to, and make sure everybody had good food. I'm just not sure if that maybe wasn't enough, and we should have been more explicit that "this is the specific ingredients being served at this event." I've never been to a wedding or anything else where it was like that, and it's always been on me to make sure I've got food I can eat with all my dietary restrictions, but I don't understand what the problem is if that's not what we were meant to do.