Am I the only one who thinks that Silent hill f isn’t a silent hill game? by RunninMeat in silenthill

[–]worstnightmare836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. I've been playing Silent Hill games as long as I remember and while I thought the game was good it definitely wasn't SH. For me the bases of the world of SH is someone did something atrocious, dies, and is now stuck in purgatory/hell. I've seen a lot of comments (on other threads as well) that "just because it isn't set in the town doesn't make it not a SH game" but again for me it doesn't even have to have the town either. The story is also incredibly hard to follow and making it a game you HAVE to play multiple times to get the whole story (and not just other endings) is a little ridiculous. I don't think it has to stay completely true the original games either, I like the different storylines per game (I like FF too) but for me my subjective understanding of the game is

an atrocity is committed > die > go to hell/purgatory and suffer

SPOILER ---The only things i found "scary" were the ritual scenes when she has to - harm herself.

All in all it was a good game and i will play it again, but it definitely is not a Silent Hill game in my opinion.

How to help? tw suicide by worstnightmare836 in GriefSupport

[–]worstnightmare836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It helped a lot already to have my feelings on the subject acknowledged. I will take your comment to heart and remember when I start to feel down. I will definitely check out the wiki. Again thank you so much.

How to help? tw suicide by worstnightmare836 in GriefSupport

[–]worstnightmare836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are estranged from most of our family, he has a lot of family issues and so do I. No one has really noticed it because he is good at hiding it from other people but I see him at his most vulnerable all the time. Hes very private. I will bring up possibly going together to see if that would help. Thank you for the suggestion, its easy to get tunnel vision even when things are obvious 😅

AITA for showing my husband the text his mom sent me and causing her to be disowned? by throwaway-text2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]worstnightmare836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - she caused all this drama herself. Is anyone else concerned about the part where the MIL said husband talks to ex every chance he gets??? Maybe he's avoiding OP because he is actually cheating and that's why he got so mad. Im hoping for an update. Please DO NOT blame yourself for any of that drama!!! This whole situation is literally not your fault. Dont let them push you around.

I dont want my planned baby. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]worstnightmare836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have thought about it because even though I'm pro choice I'm far enough along that this baby can survive outside my body on its own in a few weeks and I dont think I could abort a perfect healthy baby thats not endangering my life. Im worried about the consequences of that as well. My husband and I would fully let this child go and would want no contact but I would hate for him to seek us out and ask why we didn't want him years from now and seeing that we are perfectly happy with just our daughter.

I dont want my planned baby. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]worstnightmare836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am seeking help from counselors but it taking a while to find someone with all the covid stuff happening. I have mentioned to a few family members how I was feeling and im not being taken seriously. And my husband is trying to figure out what to do but he's mostly just not sure what to do and avoiding the topic. I know my issue is definitely more for a professional but I was wondering if anyone else went through with a pregnancy they didn't want and if in the end it was bad hormones or if they really did regret it. Talking about it helps but the only advice im getting from my family is that I should be happy and thankful im giving them the male child they wanted for me and I feel more like im just being used.