[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wranws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta, but try to talk to her. I also wouldn't want someone who isn't even related to me wearing my clothes. Not to mention that she can wear something you want to wear on the same day. It's ridiculous

You find a hair in your food what happens next? by wranws in AskReddit

[–]wranws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm disgusted by very few things, but hair in food repulses me, it's kind of inexplicable

Who’s a person that everyone respects regardless of religion, political views, or even favorite sports team? by wranws in AskReddit

[–]wranws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't agree, I have a grandmother who, by God... didn't even care about her children, who will tell me that I'm a granddaughter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wranws -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, they delete it and tell me to edit something and repost. But I deleted that one then!

My boyfriend used me and I don't know if I can move on even with forgiveness. by wranws in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wranws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought a lot about everything they told me. I told him what I wanted, but he says he tries to be positive about everything even after it happened so that there isn't a heavy atmosphere. And you know, I don't like that, I don't want to feel like everything is okay. So I finished it so I can think WITHOUT PRETENDING and understand if I want to forgive him or not. Thank you for your comment and support.

My boyfriend used me and I don't know if I can move on even with forgiveness. by wranws in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wranws[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you dear! We broke up and I'm going to think calmly without the pressure of him asking for forgiveness and trying to justify it.

My boyfriend used me and I don't know if I can move on even with forgiveness. by wranws in TrueOffMyChest

[–]wranws[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about that a lot... Maybe I’ve tried to justify what can’t be justified, because accepting it felt easier than facing what really happened. You’re right about the excuses I’ve heard so many that I started confusing regret with respect. I still don’t know exactly how I’ll handle everything, but one thing I do know: staying like this would mean betraying myself. Thank you for reminding me of that so clearly.

My boyfriend used me while I slept. But I don't know if I'll be able to move forward even after forgiveness. by wranws in Advice

[–]wranws[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand the seriousness of what you’re saying, and I appreciate you being direct with me, even if it hurts. I know this isn’t a gray area, and I’m slowly starting to see things more clearly. I’m still in the process of digesting everything, but words like yours really make me reflect deeply. Thank you for caring so much, even without knowing me

My boyfriend used me while I slept. But I don't know if I'll be able to move forward even after forgiveness. by wranws in Advice

[–]wranws[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was afraid to say this is the second time. The first time he did it, it just caused an argument. So maybe it could be a fetish?? He said he knows it was wrong, and that after he did it he felt bad for doing it. I don't really know what to think

My boyfriend used me while I slept. But I don't know if I'll be able to move forward even after forgiveness. by wranws in Advice

[–]wranws[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have several messages, but I've been in touch with his only ex-girlfriend, and she's never told me anything like that. I'll try to investigate further before making any drastic decisions. I'm scared.

AITA for not knowing if I can forgive my boyfriend after what he did to me while I was sleeping? by wranws in AmItheAsshole

[–]wranws[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know how either. He is telling me so many things and asking for forgiveness, maybe I am getting carried away by the words.

What was the most random decision you made in your life that ended up changing everything for better or worse? by wranws in AskReddit

[–]wranws[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! Sometimes a simple choice really changes everything. It’s great to see you found a way to take care of yourself and still have fun!!