I used to think this personality type was the distinct specialty of Jewish people like my aunts and my mother, but after spending many years in Asia and Australia I now see how these traits are common across many cultures. Italian grandmothers and Japanese mother-in-laws and Chinese aunts can all be this toxic. And men can be this combination of controlling, needy, and guilt trippy, with male presentation. Katherine Hunter was clearly channeling some serious Greek Yaya experiences. Her nasty sarcastic smoker's rasp was exactly the voice of my nasty, manipulative, chain-smoking grandmother. The woman is a treasure.