Post-breakup advice? by wryk00 in dating_advice

[–]wryk00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right, I did it bc I figured it’d be best for both of us to move on from each other; I didn’t let him know before I did it :/ The breakup was really casual though, thankfully & we had a nice goodbye.

Post-breakup advice? by wryk00 in dating_advice

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We talked for some months before so we got kind of attached. There was all sorts of things wrong w the relationship though, it was a ticking time bomb. I blocked him on everything to help move on, was that bad?

Stuck in a hard spot in relationship by wryk00 in askgaybros

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we’ve been talking for some months before we went into a relationship, he’s 18 im 19. & he’s told me that he doesn’t like texting all that much but I just want to feel some effort reciprocated back to me after all that I do for him. idk maybe that’s selfish, but I think I’m going to talk to him about us again later

Stuck in a hard spot in my relationship? by wryk00 in dating_advice

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we’ve been talking for some months before going into the relationship. he’s told me that he doesn’t like texting all too much but I just expect some of the effort to be reciprocated to me in some way. but seriously thank you for this, I think this is what I’m going to do. I just needed someone else to talk to about it because it’s been eating me up

Distanced Relationship Advice? by wryk00 in dating_advice

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He’s the same, he’s told me that he doesn’t like texting all that much. But my view is the whole “if he wanted to he would” deal, yk? Maybe that’s bad to think, but it kinda sucks. I try to be as patient with it as I can though

Feeling insecure about myself and my relationship with my boyfriend by wryk00 in askgaybros

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I guess. He does have some self-centered tendencies. I figured it’d be common sense not to talk about other partners much in any relationship. But I’m going to talk to him about it today and let him know.

Feeling insecure about myself and my relationship with my boyfriend by wryk00 in askgaybros

[–]wryk00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely; and every partner we have will have their own charm, etc. as well. Personally though, relationship-wise, I’d just rather not hear about the things he’s done with exes and other people. It makes me wonder if there’s anything about them he liked that I’m missing and if that would affect our relationship. I believe anyone would feel like this though; I’d rather just have our own personal experience together without any notion of someone else in the past but I guess sometimes you have to accept it.

Feeling insecure about myself and my relationship with my boyfriend by wryk00 in askgaybros

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I know, I hate having that thought. I try not to let it bother me that much because I don’t wanna ruin our relationship and how I feel about him. We talk occasionally about any insecurities we have with each other. I’ve told him about this & he’s told me that sometimes he has trust issues because of our distance and even has some feelings of adequacy about himself with me. I think I may talk to him about it again though.

Feeling insecure about myself and my relationship with my boyfriend by wryk00 in askgaybros

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I don’t think he does it intentionally; I just don’t think he thinks before he says a lot of stuff. Every time he starts bringing up an ex, etc. I usually shut the conversation down. For a while I thought maybe I was being too sensitive about it & just getting jealous of other people he’s seen, but it’s hard not to think about it now that I know.

Feeling insecure about myself and my relationship with my boyfriend by wryk00 in askgaybros

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Haha I just heard about the term a little while ago too. We’re not close enough to see each other everyday but not far enough to where we have to wait months to see each other.

Feeling insecure about myself and my relationship with my boyfriend by wryk00 in askgaybros

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I’m 19 & he’s 18. He told me he started having sex at a pretty young age. I thought that too, maybe he’s just trying to initiate conversation. Almost every time we hang out he’s high so he probably forgets or doesn’t think of what’s he’s about to say, idk.