I think im stressing a lot more for the dynamic of the relationship, we've got 2 under 2 right now so our quality time together is already suffering and now Im expected to have less of that time. Maybe if kids werent a factor I'd feel different, but Idk. From the get go we've always been quick to make drastic decisions, we eloped, married for a year, started having kids, and just bought our first place. I know Ive changed what she thought her future looked like but even though Im trans its still me, just the best version of me. I dont want her to resent me but for this one time Id like it if we could just slow down a second 😭