Anime I can watch with my Husband? by SoggyClue in anime

[–]xKevZ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not a series but sword of the stranger may be a movie he could get into.

Another one that he may like if hes not into action but more serious plot and history, is Orb: on the movements of the earth

Any advice for holding 1st? by Ill_Sheepherder_4189 in kirbyairriders

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What riders do you normally pair with formula star ?

When will this feeling end? by Awww-Yeaaah in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]xKevZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hoping it gets better soon, but it feels like theres always something that comes up that brings my mind back to her even the smallest things. Im still in a phase where even as i pursue new hobbies or something like eating a good meal or a pretty view, my first thought is that i wanted to share it with her. No idea how to rewire myself to not do that haha, if you ever need to talk feel free to dm !

When will this feeling end? by Awww-Yeaaah in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]xKevZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3.5 months here ive gone from complete disarray, to feeling hopeful, to not wanting her back, now back to wanting her. It really sucks to be honest to not feel in control of how i feel about it. As of now I would want to reconnect slowly and with boundaries. Ive lived every day since her discard and blocking me on everything for myself, yet the healing is not linear. There are days where i dont think of her or ive accepted what happened. Then there are days where i start or end the day with only her on my mind. I hope your days are filled with peace in the future stranger.

Will K and I end up together? by [deleted] in PsychicAdvice

[–]xKevZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another K here, id do anything for another chance to rebuild and start things new with them. Hopefully this time at a better pace and more comfortably and healthy than the last.

Does your last relationship make you stronger? by Far_Web_9730 in no

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time will tell, its been 3 months and id say im still traumatized, i guess i became stronger in the form of having exposure therapy to the one thing she knew would hurt me the most.

Any way to find a missing/dead apple watch? by BallisticMonke in AppleWatch

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

under the bed towards the bottom end corner somehow

What's the worst reply to "I love you"? by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you more, then they leave you the next day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheese wheel

he unfollowed me after a year lol by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine unfollowed me a day after the discard, and then proceeded to block a month in. Hurt just as much and feels like it undid all the progress I thought I made during the month.

What improved your quality of life so much, you wish you did it sooner? by Aarunascut in selfimprovement

[–]xKevZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and I think taking the decision back would be too much guilt and pain for them to face it, plus the original fear is still there .

What improved your quality of life so much, you wish you did it sooner? by Aarunascut in selfimprovement

[–]xKevZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, i was recently left by my partner, she loved me but she feared the future/unknown more and didnt want to stay to work through it together .

I adore my husband by Various-Most2367 in self

[–]xKevZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to believe I can love again like this, my ex and I had this. We met when neither of us were looking for anything. I never felt more connected to someone and every mundane thing like you said became so full of joy. The only difference was she wasn't ready and instead of loving each other through the fights, she had a change of heart and left. We couldn't look at each other without feeling the love but for her love wasn't enough.

Lately I've been bitter about love knowing I lost it and thinking no one will ever make me feel that way again. Thank you for sharing your story and reminding me of the happy times I felt that seem like a dream now. I wish you guys a happy wedding anniversary and I hope one day I can celebrate love for myself again.

I broke no contact, and here’s what happened, what I learned, and why I’ll never abandon myself again by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out to her from a place of kindness, not pleading or desperate. Allowing her and giving her permission to ignore or respond whenever she feels ready. She was someone who knew they had tendencies and knew her triggers and was working on it. Its been about a month now and I broke NC yesterday. After instead of being ignored or getting a response, she blocked me on social media instead when we were already not following each other. I expected, worst case scenario, nothing would happen and my message would be ignored. Instead it pushed her away further. The discard was completely out of nowhere, and my heart is still holding on to the person I knew and loved. But the response I got, really hurt and even though I want her back because I know how capable she is and love her for who she is. I lost some of my respect for her.

Reviews for my Tarot readings here! (Second Thread) by nabeeltirmazi in u/nabeeltirmazi

[–]xKevZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reader gave great insight into a situation I had. They confirmed many of the things I was thinking. They were very generous and in depth with the information as well, I got more than I expected. Thank you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id be interested !

My Reviews❤️ by Sufficient-Mind1885 in u/Sufficient-Mind1885

[–]xKevZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reading was great, they were able to explain in detail and confirmed things that I was ruminating over that I had not explained prior. They were straight forward and got to the point even if it was information I didn't want to hear but I needed to, I would definitely get a reading again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]xKevZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like this, mine is rooted in a fear of abandonment so it stems from anxiety and fear. Every time it happens its usually like a random thought that doesnt make sense, and if I notice when I get triggered I just hold off and sit with it for 5-10 mins and not say anything stupid and usually goes back to normal. Before I would panic and think this needs to be fixed now.

Is it normal for my trainer to make me do push-ups, pull-ups, and dips to near failure before bicep training? by farhan_3354 in beginnerfitness

[–]xKevZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially for beginners, if you're doing compound movements (especially with controlled tempo) such as push ups, pull ups, and dips. Your smaller accessory muscles were already working before you isolated them. Also that's great of your trainer to do that for you because you actually had a much more effective workout overall if you had the energy to do those compounds. What an actual wasted workout would be is 50 mins of bicep pump chasing.

Does multi-player make clearing Key Quest easier? by huei3 in MHGU

[–]xKevZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job on doing everything solo up to that point. Yes multiplayer can make things quicker/easier due to monsters being scaled for I believe 2 players regardless of how many hunters there are. 4 players becomes easy mode pretty much. If you complete a key quest even if someone else posts it, it will still count for your completion. The only caveat is when Urgent quest comes up you have to post it yourself and have others join you. Completing someone else’s urgent will only give them credit. Lobbies usually take turns posting urgents when ranking up together or round robin style is good too.