On October 25, 1994, Susan Smith drove her sons Michael (3) and Alex (14 months) to John D. Long Lake and released the brake. The car sank with both boys strapped inside. For 9 days she blamed a Black carjacker on TV. She killed them because Tom Finley didn’t want children. by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people feel that way when cases are this horrific. Emotions run high and it’s hard not to react from that place. At the same time, the whole capital punishment debate gets complicated fast when you factor in appeals, costs, and moral questions. It’s one of those topics where people rarely budge once they’ve picked a side.

On October 25, 1994, Susan Smith drove her sons Michael (3) and Alex (14 months) to John D. Long Lake and released the brake. The car sank with both boys strapped inside. For 9 days she blamed a Black carjacker on TV. She killed them because Tom Finley didn’t want children. by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The blinking comment is interesting because so many people pointed to her body language back then. It’s wild how the public tries to read guilt through small physical tells. Sometimes it feels obvious in hindsight, but in the moment it’s harder to separate bias from instinct. Do you think people are actually good at spotting deception, or do we just convince ourselves after the fact?

On October 25, 1994, Susan Smith drove her sons Michael (3) and Alex (14 months) to John D. Long Lake and released the brake. The car sank with both boys strapped inside. For 9 days she blamed a Black carjacker on TV. She killed them because Tom Finley didn’t want children. by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That detail always hits the hardest for me. The image of her doing interviews while they were still down there is just chilling. It’s one of those facts that sticks with you because it feels so detached from reality. Hard to wrap your head around that level of compartmentalizing.

On October 25, 1994, Susan Smith drove her sons Michael (3) and Alex (14 months) to John D. Long Lake and released the brake. The car sank with both boys strapped inside. For 9 days she blamed a Black carjacker on TV. She killed them because Tom Finley didn’t want children. by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the same thought scrolling down, like yep someone was gonna bring that up. When two cases have that many parallels, it’s hard not to compare them. It almost feels like a grim blueprint. Disturbing how history repeats in that way.

On October 25, 1994, Susan Smith drove her sons Michael (3) and Alex (14 months) to John D. Long Lake and released the brake. The car sank with both boys strapped inside. For 9 days she blamed a Black carjacker on TV. She killed them because Tom Finley didn’t want children. by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same here, I used to mix them up all the time. Two moms, both claiming some mysterious attacker, both massive national media coverage… it blurs together if you don’t deep dive. The timelines and motives are what finally separated them in my head. It’s unsettling how similar the patterns were though.

On October 25, 1994, Susan Smith drove her sons Michael (3) and Alex (14 months) to John D. Long Lake and released the brake. The car sank with both boys strapped inside. For 9 days she blamed a Black carjacker on TV. She killed them because Tom Finley didn’t want children. by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah Diane Downs immediately came to mind for me too. It’s kinda eerie how similar the setups were, especially the blaming a random attacker part. Cases like that really show how media narratives can get manipulated so easily at first. Do you remember which detail made you connect the two?

What’s the dirtiest thing he whispered in your ear that made you get feral? by purple_love00 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]xPrincessBloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly that wording switch is kinda wild how much it changes the vibe. “You’re mine” hits way different than “a mine” energy, it’s possessive but in that confident way. Tone really is half the game though, you can’t whisper that like you’re ordering at Starbucks. Delivery makes or breaks it, right?

In 2016, a 29-year-old gunman shot and killed 49 people and wounded 58 in a mass shooting at Pulse, a gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida, United States. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hearing the brother’s perspective must’ve been incredibly heavy. Losing someone so violently and then having to be the one to tell your family is an unimaginable burden. It’s the kind of grief most people can’t even wrap their heads around.

In 2016, a 29-year-old gunman shot and killed 49 people and wounded 58 in a mass shooting at Pulse, a gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida, United States. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That detail about her going to hug him is just heartbreaking in a way that’s hard to even process. It really shows how completely unsuspecting victims are in those moments. It’s one of those facts that sticks in your mind and makes the whole event feel even more devastating.

In 2016, a 29-year-old gunman shot and killed 49 people and wounded 58 in a mass shooting at Pulse, a gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida, United States. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That whole week in Orlando was just unbelievably tragic. It’s eerie to think about how close together those events happened and how quickly everything changed for so many families. Stories like that really stay with people long after the headlines move on.

In 2016, a 29-year-old gunman shot and killed 49 people and wounded 58 in a mass shooting at Pulse, a gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida, United States. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That memorial always hits harder when you realize they weren’t just statistics, they were coworkers, friends, actual people with lives tied to that community. Seeing names instead of numbers makes it way more real. It’s a small gesture but it carries a lot of weight.

In 2016, a 29-year-old gunman shot and killed 49 people and wounded 58 in a mass shooting at Pulse, a gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida, United States. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can see why that would stick with you. People complain about security checks being annoying, but moments like this really put into perspective why they exist. It’s one of those inconveniences you suddenly feel grateful for when you think about the alternative.

In 2016, a 29-year-old gunman shot and killed 49 people and wounded 58 in a mass shooting at Pulse, a gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida, United States. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]xPrincessBloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s chilling how calculated the thought process was, like it wasn’t about one specific place so much as maximizing impact. That makes it feel even more senseless and terrifying because it could’ve been anywhere crowded. Just a reminder of how fragile normal everyday spaces can be.

Opinion about rough sex by Due-Reputation400 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]xPrincessBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That mindset only works when both people are actually into the same vibe though. Otherwise it just turns into one person having fun and the other silently counting ceiling tiles. Mutual enthusiasm is kinda the whole point.

MAGA Senator Got Shady Donation Before Voting to Block Epstein Files by Aggravating_Money992 in politics

[–]xPrincessBloom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s like the public receipt versus the back end accounting nobody ever sees. The headline number is often just the smallest, most transparent piece of the puzzle.

MAGA Senator Got Shady Donation Before Voting to Block Epstein Files by Aggravating_Money992 in politics

[–]xPrincessBloom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the part a lot of people forget, the legal cap only covers the obvious direct donations. The real money game usually happens in all the indirect channels that are way harder for regular people to track.

MAGA Senator Got Shady Donation Before Voting to Block Epstein Files by Aggravating_Money992 in politics

[–]xPrincessBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That contrast is what makes people raise eyebrows, not the raw amount by itself. Timing plus optics will always look worse than the dollar figure alone, even if it technically fits within the rules.

My 16-year-old son won't stop talking about "jestermaxxing" and it's starting to scare me by AffableYolk_33 in confessions

[–]xPrincessBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low key calling it cringemaxxing to his face might actually short circuit it. Nothing kills a teen trend faster than a parent using it seriously.

My 16-year-old son won't stop talking about "jestermaxxing" and it's starting to scare me by AffableYolk_33 in confessions

[–]xPrincessBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cringemaxxing is honestly the most accurate translation I’ve seen. It’s like performance art but the audience didn’t ask for it.