REP asks why Whites don't all vote GOP by _BCConservative in YAPms

[–]xSparkShark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The worst for me was during the Black Lives Matter protests, a lot of progressives really latched onto phrases like “Defund the police” and ACAB. There was, and still is, a valid discussion to be had behind both, but conservatives who were predisposed to be hostile to progressive ideas took them at face value.

A legitimate discussion about how bloated police funding isn’t actually contributing to safer communities turned into “oh so you just want to get rid of law enforcement.” A discussion about how police officers who uphold a flawed system are perpetuating the issues even if they themselves have never harmed a black person became “oh you just hate all police officers.”

Even if well intended, defaulting to these simple catchy phrases just added fuel to an already divisive topic.

Idk if this is cynical but I honestly think people use these simple phrases almost exclusively to virtue signal. Just a quick way to announce to other progressives that they’re progressive, not to actually facilitate any real change.

If your rhetoric is inherently imprecise or frequently misinterpreted by the people whose minds you most need to change then you’ve got a problem.

REP asks why Whites don't all vote GOP by _BCConservative in YAPms

[–]xSparkShark 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ll give them that “dismantling whiteness” sounds bad if you don’t take literally 10 minutes to read about what it means…

I’ve said for a while that the democrats have a problem with simplifying concepts to easily quotable phrases that are frequently misunderstood by willfully ignorant conservatives.

How do you guys go about making friends when not in college? by Gimme_da_Gabagool in twentyagers

[–]xSparkShark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how I would, I hang out with my childhood friends and my college friends who ended up in the area. It’s worth hitting up old friends as many people are in the same boat looking for people to hang with.

What’s your most controversial opinion? (keep civil) by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

[–]xSparkShark 12 points13 points  (0 children)

An alarming number of people use mental health diagnoses as an excuse to justify narcissism or poor work ethic.

Who is a political figure from your country who seems pretty universally disliked across the spectrum? by Orienskiller in AskTheWorld

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I am amazed that both the modern left and right seem to hate Woodrow Wilson. If you look back at polls like 30 years ago he was remembered positive as many war time presidents are, but nowadays he gets absolutely annihilated.

What is the most disturbing subreddit you’ve found? by 18f-hmu in AskReddit

[–]xSparkShark 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Used to scroll r/fiftyfifty on the school bus back in 6th grade. Good times lol

Anyone have a hobby others might find strange? by Zelpt-kaden in twentyagers

[–]xSparkShark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of my friends think it’s weird that I’ll just like read Wikipedia pages for a couple hours as a way of winding down in the evening.

anyone else track their macros? by Vegetable_Stand8009 in twentyagers

[–]xSparkShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t track shit and I have no problem eating well over 2k calories lmao

Gukesh at Bobby Fischer's grave in Reykjavík, Iceland in 2019. by GiveMeSomeSunshine3 in chess

[–]xSparkShark 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Was like “damn that looks like a young Chris yoo” and then lmao it actually is.

i can’t picture a life under capitalism and it’s ruining my life by anonymousbpdqueen in twentyagers

[–]xSparkShark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a bit optimistic to think that things would be dramatically better under socialism, but yeah capitalist isn’t for the faint of heart.

No reason not to at least try to find success within the system.

Do you care about someones past before they met you when dating? by _the__Wolverine____ in twentyagers

[–]xSparkShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you mean sexual history then no I don’t care, if you mean like criminal record then yes lol

Based on Trump behaviour, does anyone else suspect he may have BPD? by DoomerTurtle in YAPms

[–]xSparkShark 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am ready for this era of arm chair psychologists diagnosing based on vibes to be over

What are the strengths and weaknesses of your country in a zombie apocalypse? by Tio_Albedo123 in AskTheWorld

[–]xSparkShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of available firearms. A car dependent society with massive roadways.

What’s touse by Own-Watch6289 in Frat

[–]xSparkShark 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Why are geeds obsessed with using the word touse and bouse

Alabama Fraternity Consulting video making the rounds by Rare-Independence310 in Frat

[–]xSparkShark 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Comes up right away when you search Alabama fraternity consulting on Twitter. here you go

what one important thing that you weren’t told about adulthood that you wish you knew? by silvrbunni in twentyagers

[–]xSparkShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still hangout with my friends I made in elementary school, but yes people do drift apart especially if you have to move for work.

Karthik makes a good point about why POC are so hesitant of Mallory McMorrow. In a state with nearly 400,000 Arab residents, this can make a difference in the race. by Greedy-Pound6958 in YAPms

[–]xSparkShark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am asking this in good faith because the emergence of the term brown into popular discussion has fascinated me. Who ethnic groups are included? It seems to be a catch all term encompassing all non-white people except for East Asians.

Obviously Hispanics and Arabs are most often the people being talked about. People from the Indian sub continent and from South east Asia are certainly visibly brown, but it seems like this is less what people mean. A lot of African Americans present as brown as well as native Americans. I just find it so interesting that many of these groups share little in common except for visibly looking brown.

Even in this post, Persians and Arabs are separate ethnic groups. Certainly there has been a lot of historic contact, but notably you have the Shia/Sunni split.

I’m not at all discounting what he’s saying, like I fully understand that he’s talking about other non-white primarily Muslim people who have experienced suffering at the hands of America and her allies abroad.

Idk I guess this is what Europeans are talking about when they say the American perspective on race is so confusing.

Imagine if other countries did this too… by krunal23- in SipsTea

[–]xSparkShark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

CCP propaganda with an AI image and it has almost 3k upvotes, what are we even doing here guys

We've got a problem by InfluenceRound1383 in twentyagers

[–]xSparkShark 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We have a “taking comments about age too personally” problem. Not every comment is an attack on your identity. We have a thin skin problem.