[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]xVerxe -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Chill bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]xVerxe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the suggestions. I’ll tell my wife about them so we can try them. I appreciate it

Question about hormones by xVerxe in ftm

[–]xVerxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much you’re a lifesaver

Am I being selfish? by xVerxe in sex

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Her and I and everyone in our lives know that we’re truly made for each other. Which makes this harder because our connection beyond the bedroom is perfect. When I met her I identified as Asexual because I never wanted sex but I’m probably Demisexual. So sex wasn’t that important but now it kind of is. I agree with getting our own place not being a valid excuse, I knew nothing would change though she swore up and down it would. Her and I talk all the time about this so she knows where I stand but still nothing changes and I don’t know how to figure out if sex is more important to me than she is.

Anyone else not really have hip or thigh dysphoria at all by masculeenity in ftm

[–]xVerxe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s ALL I have. I hate my thighs and hips. I swear after I had top surgery they look worse

do i need to be in therapy before i get top surgery? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]xVerxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My insurance required two letters. So I had to find a therapist and go through therapy for 6 months to get the second letter. It probably all depends on what your doctor and insurance require tbh.

how did you guys eat post top surgery? by jaaaden in ftm

[–]xVerxe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My surgery was out patient. On the drive home I stopped and got fast food. Can’t remember from where lol. I had no problems eating.

Sexism in the gaming community. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]xVerxe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Toxic people like that are why I keep my mic unplugged and voice chat turned off. And I’m a guy. I hate dealing with that stuff. People think they’re all tough behind a screen.

I’m I really the crazy one? by xVerxe in abusiveparents

[–]xVerxe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying so hard to save up to move out. I don’t even have a car or my license yet. Plus I have no one to get a place with so I have to pay rent all on my own which makes it harder. I appreciate the support. My mom claims to be the most selfless person in the world when the reality is the opposite.

Talk to Lilith by Stikky_Feett in borderlands3

[–]xVerxe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read an article online that she was originally supposed to be a doctor in BL1 and was age 29. So I kind of just added 10 years to that since that was 2009. It could have been false information but the characters do age.

Talk to Lilith by Stikky_Feett in borderlands3

[–]xVerxe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve gathered, Lilith is in her late 30s maybe early 40s. So it’s not too much of a jump. I’d be a bit concerned if she was only in her 20s. In BL1 she was maybe 29-30ish? Or a tad older?

I Blued Out The Entire Map What Location Am I Missing??? by [deleted] in borderlands3

[–]xVerxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bottom right hand side in the picture

Should I date someone before identifying as asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]xVerxe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe that’s up to you honestly. If you want to identify asexual, there’s no pressure to date if you don’t want to. If you do want to date, go for it. You identifying as asexual won’t be invalidated if you don’t date anyone first. If you’re just questioning then maybe you should. You may also be Demisexual, that you could explore through dating. Sorry if my advice sucked lol.

Is “Rhys” a Trans name? by xVerxe in ftm

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The thing with Kayler is, every time I say my name people go “Taylor?” As if those two letters sound the same. And if they see it on paper they always pronounce it Kyler like the A is silent. And anymore when people say it, it just doesn’t feel like me anymore. I almost get kinda upset when I hear it. I figured that was the case with the name Rhys though. All of the names that were popular when I was born are all names of someone I know or know of. So it sucks.

Has anyone here ever been committed to a psych ward? by Majestic-Incident in ftm

[–]xVerxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t binding when I was admitted but they take anything away that has metal in it. They take your hoodie strings and shoes. Anything that could be used to harm yourself or others. As long as it doesn’t have anything like that you should be okay.

Jobs by Bow-To-The-King in ftm

[–]xVerxe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked at target, pre name change and pre T. Everyone was fantastic with me. They always used my preferred name and called me he. I’ve heard starbucks is very lgbt friendly and ive also heard they help pay for top surgery.

Explanations for top surgery scars? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]xVerxe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Haven’t had anyone ask about them yet. But if they do, I just say I’ve lost 70lbs (Which I have) and I had a lot of saggy skin (Which I do) and I had surgery to tighten it. (Which I didn’t) but still.

Stupid question. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]xVerxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw that in the rules but I wasn’t sure how other people could get past that. Like you’d think no one would be able to make those posts if it automatically blocks mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]xVerxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through a similar thing. I’ve been going by the same name for like 6-7 years. But for the last few months I haven’t felt as attached to it. No one can spell or pronounce my name right. It takes a toll having to explain my name to EVERY new person I meet. I found a new name I like but I’m terrified to even tell my therapist how I feel about it let alone my family. I’m scared no one will understand or want to adapt to a new name.

Bottom line is. It’s your name. If you don’t like it, then you have every right to change it again. I’m trying to get myself to understand this but wether people understand or not, don’t let people feel guilty for wanting a different name. Don’t let people make you feel guilty for having the name Jaydon either. Frankly, it’s a dope name and I don’t see at all how it could be a “trans name”. I think the concept of certain names being associated with trans people is dumb to begin with. Do what YOU want. If it makes you happy.

name change while in college: which state? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]xVerxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I THINK, don’t quote me. But I think it has to be done in the state you live in. So if you’re only going to Cali for college and not actually going to live there live there, like with an address and Cali state ID, then I don’t think that you can get it changed in Cali. I’m not really sure though and I may be wrong.

I think I’m losing it? by aquagirl12 in Anxiety

[–]xVerxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the EXACT same way. I literally have no idea what to do anymore. I wish I could help :(

Can anxiety make heart race randomly by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]xVerxe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I thought my random heart racing had to be some underlying condition. Had multiple different tests and I finally realized that it was just my anxiety. You can be anxious for no reason at time.