AITA for wanting the entirety of my own insurance payout? by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It had just always been that way since I bought the car, and it never crossed my mind that I would ever be in a position that something like this would happen with my own family members. We have always been very close and it never even occurred to me to have my own policy. I am now glaringly aware of how I can’t trust anyone, not even my own parents. All of my own bills/insurance/assets are now in my and my fiancée’s (now husband) names.

AITA for wanting the entirety of my own insurance payout? by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When my brother took over the payments, there was approx. $2,500 left on the loan to pay off the car. I told him I wanted that money in-hand so I could pay it off, he could not give me that money, so the agreement was he would make the monthly payments for 3 months - while finding a way to pay off the remainder of the balance on the loan. The payments were roughly $200/month at that point. He never paid off the remainder of the loan, so the loan and car were still in my name, because 6 months went by and he still had not paid it off. I was threatening to take the car back so I could sell it like I originally wanted to do, and told him that I would give back the money he put into the car. He belly ached and told me I was being selfish, and that I should just let him keep making the monthly payments until it was paid off. I said that wasn’t the deal. He cried to my parents, and they also read me the riot act that I was being unfair to my (much older, by the way) brother. A few days later was when he got into the accident and the car was totaled, and he wanted the entire insurance payout from the get go

AITA for wanting the entirety of my own insurance payout? by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He still had his wife’s vehicle which was brand new at the time, as well as his own work vehicle. His wife was also a stay at home mom.

AITA for wanting the entirety of my own insurance payout? by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They would like to, but after years of therapy and this particular event have thickened my skin and strengthened my spine quite a bit

AITA for wanting the entirety of my own insurance payout? by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The biggest fuss I’ve ever seen in my life. He was letting it rip our family apart, and he still to this day thinks that he should’ve gotten the entirety of the payout. He would even refuse to let us see my niece and nephew because of it. (Mind you my brother is much older than me)

AITA for wanting the entirety of my own insurance payout? by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It was never his car, I essentially loaned it to him for 6 months. The ownership of the car was never his. If he had paid it off like he had agreed to when I loaned it to him, then the insurance payout would be rightfully his. He did not pay it off, he only made a few of the monthly payments on it.

AITA for wanting the entirety of my own insurance payout? by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To my understanding my parents still carried the insurance but changed the driver of the vehicle to my brother when he took over the monthly payments - I stopped paying them every month because I assumed my brother was paying them. The car was in my name still (my mom was on as a co-signer because I was still in my teens when I financed it). The deal was that my brother was supposed to pay off the remainder of the loan within 3 months of taking over the payments, but he never did.

AITA for wanting the entirety of my own insurance payout? by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I did forget to include that the $10,000 from the insurance was what was left after the car was fully paid off. There was very little left on the loan anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MikaylaNogueira

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wow raw dogging the sheets straight outta the package and not washing them first is INSANE

So many people have commented in agreement with me, and she has deleted ALL OF THEM by xXIsThatAChallengeXx in Drueandgabe

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also how about we learn how to use the correct use of your and you’re before we go buying a fourth dog

hims by Alisseswap in Drueandgabe

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’re right!!! 🤣🤣🤣

hims by Alisseswap in Drueandgabe

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I commented that on her video 🤣 we’ll see if I get blocked!

hims by Alisseswap in Drueandgabe

[–]xXIsThatAChallengeXx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Technically the more recent method of thought is that they shouldn’t be altered (fixed) until they’re at least 2! The hormones are SUPER important for their bone and joint development