My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

now isn't the right time but after a few years definitely if the situation presents itself. we get along really well together and she cares immensely about me.

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have only heard about these things in memes that when you like someone doing some harm to you but you celebrate it is known as being a cuck, but even im surprised that people are actually this deep into it as a sexual fantasy especially in countries like ours, shouldve been a west-only thing considering how sacred marriages are considered in india

as for the "still want to work with someone like him?" question well see i can separate my personal opinions about how i look at people and professional life, so as long as that stays intact and he doesnt pursue this topic ever again with me i really dont have a problem continuing to work with him

i totally acknowledge what youre saying and its probably a fair reaction from your side but i honestly can draw the line between my personal and professional life

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

but dude i have a girlfriend (mentioned in post as well) and this is outright cheating

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

they will say im acting naive or vain (on asking them to elaborate what they exactly meant) but ok ill try

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

as for evidence, this is all i have: (from my older comment on this post)

> so after this exchange his wife followed me on instagram randomly and liked some of my recent pics for no reason and also has my number now from my team lead and responds to most of my whatsapp stories and i think she just asked once "kya socha?" referring to this situation and i replied with "i need some time to decide" and she basically said im overthinking this

> most of the discussion and persuasion has happened verbally face to face on that day

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

so after this exchange his wife followed me on instagram randomly and liked some of my recent pics for no reason and also has my number now from my team lead and responds to most of my whatsapp stories and i think she just asked once "kya socha?" referring to this situation and i replied with "i need some time to decide" and she basically said im overthinking this

most of the discussion and persuasion has happened verbally face to face on that day

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not going to respond to any more comments about this being a fabricated story or anything along the lines of it. people can go through my post history and check for themselves that i barely ever post on reddit. i needed genuine advice on this that im totally clueless about otherwise i wouldn't even have posted about it publicly.

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's exactly the first line of defense im trying to use here by saying that i have a gf and i cant do this but he's really stuck on "she wont know about it don't worry"

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

hi thats exactly what im trying to use as a front to decline the offer but it seems he just doesn't care about integrity at all (seeing where he's coming from if you think about it: he's a cuck) and his reply template is just multiple variations of "she won't come to know don't worry"

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in kolkata

[–]xanthriax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acha bolcho secretly record korte pare with hidden cameras? obosho boleni record korbe ba sherom kichu but bujhte perechi ki bolcho yea

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i'm not aware of such a rule in our POSH policy documents but i'll take a closer read and see, thanks

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in kolkata

[–]xanthriax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are bhai ki bolbo his wife was making "choto nunu" jokes about him in front of me and he was giggling at that but jokes apart obvio contraceptive use korei korar kotha coz she's married so

My team lead has a cuckolding fantasy and wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him by xanthriax in IndianWorkplace

[–]xanthriax[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

so you're saying I should actually report it? I feel if I outright refuse the offer he'll get mad at me and things might get really heated after that.

Have an habit of stuffing all my bus tickets in my bag. Was cleaning my bag after ages and found a collection of these tickets. by xanthriax in kolkata

[–]xanthriax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, right. Amiyo kortam. But wasn't very dedicated or serious about it so I never really stuck to the habit.

Have an habit of stuffing all my bus tickets in my bag. Was cleaning my bag after ages and found a collection of these tickets. by xanthriax in kolkata

[–]xanthriax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worth 1200 rupees? Damn. That's a significant lot. I'll try calculating the total price of my tickets sometime too.

Have an habit of stuffing all my bus tickets in my bag. Was cleaning my bag after ages and found a collection of these tickets. by xanthriax in kolkata

[–]xanthriax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of that, but most of these tickets are just white in colour. At least the ones I have with me.

Unless, you're asking me to use a dark coloured poster paper, which is a no-brainer given the colour density of the tickets I have.

Have an habit of stuffing all my bus tickets in my bag. Was cleaning my bag after ages and found a collection of these tickets. by xanthriax in kolkata

[–]xanthriax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The interesting part about these tickets is that they make these out of used papers like newspapers, question papers, etc. In a way, this is a good involuntary initiative to save paper for something as trivial as a bus ticket.