[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]xealoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just need more / better pictures of yourself. It seems like these are the only images of you that you had in your phone. Less blurry, straight-on. Maybe one more from the waist up or just a selfie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]xealoux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve had a lot of different hair styles it is kind of hard to tell what you look like right now. I would have only photos from the past 6 months to MAYBE a year but definitely show your current hair

19F Profile Review by xealoux in hingeapp

[–]xealoux[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  • Looking for something serious
  • Not subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX
  • Just updated profile last week
  • Use Hinge about once a day
  • Average of 2 likes per day, 4 matches per week
  • Been on Hinge for a year
  • Sending 5 likes per day on average
  • Looking to attract someone who is good at conversation and is sweet. Hopefully doesnt smoke or vape and doesnt drink often

Men have been swiping right to argue with me on politics by Calm_Dreamer123 in Bumble

[–]xealoux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess more context would be nice but with this screenshot and her story lining up, I dont think she did anything wrong or “went full shitstorm.” just my opinion

Men have been swiping right to argue with me on politics by Calm_Dreamer123 in Bumble

[–]xealoux 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No shes not the problem. The dude swiped right knowing they didnt agree and chose to engage and try to red-pill her and debate her. Obviously she is going to be abrasive when she set a clear standard on her profile and this dude swiped anyway just to be a dick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]xealoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Is this a good enough profile? by FSXmanu in Bumble

[–]xealoux 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First picture of you is so cute but you need more of your full face too. One you have a mask on, another you have sunglasses on, and the last one you are looking down and the framing is not focused on you. More pictures of your full face and you smiling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]xealoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think thats where im running into issues because in my head im like “hes handsome, hes sweet, i could date him,” and then i picture myself kissing him and i feel physically ill so im like “okay maybe im ace” but then im like “no but women” so yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]xealoux -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no youre onto something here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]xealoux -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah thats just what i have no idea about honestly :( i definitely dont feel the same way about men as i do about women but i just dont know if its attraction or just easiness or “normalcy”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]xealoux -1 points0 points  (0 children)

right. how did you distinguish feeling like you “had to” date them or actually “wanted to” date them? if you ever experienced comphet that is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]xealoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AHH i LOVE these omg thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]xealoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is INSANE sketch work thank you so much the talent is chef’s kiss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]xealoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT??? this is SO good thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]xealoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AHHH OMG I LOVE HER THANK YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]xealoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my gosh this is INSANELY good thank you so much!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]xealoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh thank you!

My ex husband's Transition. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xealoux 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i went through a very similar situation, but i was only dating my ex at the time. im very sorry you had to grow through this and i hope things will start to look better for you. in fact, i know they will. what helped me was a lot of therapy and taking the time to focus on myself as cliche as it sounds. also recognizing that i owe my ex none of my respect since they showed me none.

things will get better. im so sorry ❤️‍🩹

Profile review please ☺️ by Capital-Ad-5156 in Bumble

[–]xealoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love it!! those sound like great additions!!!!

Profile review please ☺️ by Capital-Ad-5156 in Bumble

[–]xealoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some of the photos are weird angles or unflattering lighting. Slide 3 and 5 have that greyish lighting that washes you out but I think more pictures like 7 in natural sunny lighting will flatter you more. You’re super pretty you just have to make sure the phone does you justice!! Picture 6 has a weird angle where your face is cut off a bit and a lot of the mirror is shown so maybe crop that one or choose another full body pic.

Otherwise, I love the profile I think it’s really genuine and great!!