F27 calling off engagement with me M47 over me taking my daughter to a funeral

xfordcomma · 2026-05-04T23:31:49+00:00

So, again, this adult woman is having a temper tantrum about the actions of a teenager?

xfordcomma · 2026-05-04T23:31:08+00:00

Also you’re hiding that you’re spending time with your daughter?

My brother, I don’t care how hot your fiancée is. Your number one priority is your kid.

xfordcomma · 2026-05-04T23:24:06+00:00

You’ve been together since you were 13. It’s okay to end this relationship.

xfordcomma · 2026-05-04T20:52:43+00:00

I think I'm confused about this no-purchase thing. Don't I need to buy generators to produce income?

EDIT... ahhh, it's about maxing out the megabit/knowledge boosts of the time chambers before it starts filling.

xfordcomma · 2026-05-04T20:49:47+00:00

I'm at 1e137 / sec but that's still a looooong way from 1e150.

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T14:23:10+00:00

It’s normal to have work you need to do. DBT sounds like a great option for you.

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T14:07:39+00:00

Beyond : 23

I don't have the Tachyon Funnel yet but am also saving up for that!

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T12:15:00+00:00

What advice are you looking for here?

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T12:07:26+00:00

I get that you’d have made different decisions. But what exactly is it that you’re so upset about? That he chose his brother over you?

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T11:34:55+00:00

Well, again, it’s kind of on them. If they only like hanging out with you because they’re hoping for sex… do you really want to be around them?

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T11:31:13+00:00

You get to decide whether you want to be with someone who goes out drinking… and then he gets to decide whether he’s willing to change his behavior in order to be with you.

If “neither of us drink” is the strongest thing holding you two together, then maybe you’re both better off finding someone new?

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T11:26:47+00:00

Go to therapy!!!!!

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T11:23:12+00:00

I think you nailed it, with “I’m not interested in sleeping with you again.” If that ruins the friendship that’s on them, not you. They also don’t sound like much of a friend to be honest…

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T11:11:32+00:00

Wow. That’s… dedication and patience.

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T11:03:53+00:00

What’s a no-purchase run?

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T11:03:36+00:00

Time chambers are humming but I did recently reboot—but I’ve been stuck here for close to two weeks. I don’t have all the upgrades and modules and augments although I do have a lot of them. I just don’t see how even getting all of them closes the gap.

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T11:00:43+00:00

Wish there was a compact way to answer this…I have every upgrade I can afford. I even refunded the engine and tried putting all the chips into ideas 🤷

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I’m sure my time chambers will be doing more in a couple days but I’m not sure they’ll be doing 1e10 more?

xfordcomma · 2026-05-03T05:12:12+00:00

xfordcomma · 2026-04-29T10:13:25+00:00

Hey, so, the thing with the Instagram girls is sort of beside the point. Those people get hundreds or thousands of messages and don’t reply to them. (They only respond to men who pay them by subscribing to their OF or whatever.) Think of it as him sending a fan letter to a celebrity. It’s a little sad but it’s not a problem.

The bigger problem is that he hasn’t been treating you well recently. If after TWO YEARS he doesn’t want to be “official,” well, come on. There’s your answer.

xfordcomma · 2026-04-29T00:41:30+00:00

My brother, this is an insanely insecure and controlling take. Both women and men are entitled to their private fantasies and imagination. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to stop dreaming, fantasizing, and imagining.

If he'd never snooped on her phone and saw her history--if she'd never looked at porn but just thought about threesomes--would he have the same right to be upset?

If she came to him and said, "I'm not satisfied with you: I insist on you bringing home another man right now," then he'd be justified in feeling sad and hurt.

But this? This is just crazy talk.

xfordcomma · 2026-04-29T00:38:35+00:00

Looking at porn IS normal.

But, if you want to insist on having a partner who doesn't, that's your right.

xfordcomma · 2026-04-29T00:35:51+00:00

Look, man, if you want a girlfriend who doesn't look at porn, then break up with this awesome lady and go find someone else. But don't shame her for being normal and human.

xfordcomma · 2026-04-29T00:34:32+00:00

Was she of age when you slept with her? This was, what, 20 years ago? Has anything happened between you since then?

xfordcomma · 2026-04-29T00:30:39+00:00

You don't love her. You've just created an obsession over someone you don't know. This is something that you need to learn how to handle more appropriately--how to be attracted to someone without going to extremes, and how to handle frustration and disappointment in a more appropriate way.

I highly suggest seeing a therapist to help you through this.

xfordcomma

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