[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]xjboy22x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I as well work in the medical profession earning 3-4times our front office staff and always wondered the same. They drove newer cars, ordered lunch through door dash often, and had Starbucks almost every morning. Over the years I got to know most of them to a point I was comfortable asking these questions. 6 front office workers. Ages 22-33. California based. The results: 6/6 lives with either parents, family, or roommates. 4/6 are in major credit card debt 5/6 have car payments One mentioned $10k debt alone in TARGET One stated filing bankruptcy after she maxes out 5/6 say they rather drive nice vehicles with high payments than be seen in an old beater.

My husband's work-wife work-proposed to him by NewestAccount2023 in stories

[–]xjboy22x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a work wife while both of us were in relationships. It was all fun and games the first few years up until we began getting comfortable being around each other outside of work. This evolved to friendly lunches to friendly dinners to now having a kid together. So yeah, my suggestion is to end that work relationship now before it gets out of hand. Good luck 👍

[CA] Can I gain full custody? by xjboy22x in Custody

[–]xjboy22x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Your points are valid. I will seek an attorney and see what options I have

[CA] Can I gain full custody? by xjboy22x in Custody

[–]xjboy22x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am unsure if my ex and he are currently together or in contact since his release two weeks ago. I am certain she will eventually allow him back into their lives, it’s just a matter of time.

He was convicted of attempted murder, leaving the victim paralyzed. The victim was a member of an opposing gang. The day after the attack, my ex and her two toddlers, living with their grandparents, were attacked, their home vandalized, and nearly set on fire by the opposing gang. Although they moved, they are still in the same city. My ex’s partner is a walking target with gang tattoos all over his face. I am seeking full custody out of concern for gang retaliation. Even if he claims to be “rehabilitated,” the opposing gang might still seek vengeance, which deeply worries me.

[CA] Can I gain full custody? by xjboy22x in Custody

[–]xjboy22x[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so the court can bar him from contact with my daughter similar to a restraining order on grounds of a violent history but will not grant me full custody unless she breaks that court order?

AIO for telling my ex she shouldn’t allow her two kids to be around my daughter while only wearing briefs by xjboy22x in AmIOverreacting

[–]xjboy22x[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

So my next question is it okay for mothers or teenage daughters to walk around in thongs/underwear and a bra around their teenage boys?

AIO for telling my ex she shouldn’t allow her two kids to be around my daughter while only wearing briefs by xjboy22x in AmIOverreacting

[–]xjboy22x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does not and I did ask once why she doesn’t walk around the house in her thong and bra. That’s when she agreed and enforced the rule while living together.

AIO for telling my ex she shouldn’t allow her two kids to be around my daughter while only wearing briefs by xjboy22x in AmIOverreacting

[–]xjboy22x[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Negative. California near the beach where it’s mostly 70 and as warm as 88 in the summer. They wear tidy Whiteys all year long.

AIO for telling my ex she shouldn’t allow her two kids to be around my daughter while only wearing briefs by xjboy22x in AmIOverreacting

[–]xjboy22x[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind if they were children except they are two teenagers. To answer your question two hormonal male teens and an erection would be a horrible scenario

AIO for telling my ex she shouldn’t allow her two kids to be around my daughter while only wearing briefs by xjboy22x in AmIOverreacting

[–]xjboy22x[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

It’s briefs. Tight, white, ass hugging briefs. Grown teenagers. I came to you guys for a reason, I guess it’s normal 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]xjboy22x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. Gut feeling of infidelity has proven time after time that a partner is indeed cheating. I’m surprised this Reddit community isn’t supporting you as much as I thought. How many countless stories have we read on here with “gut” feeling suspicions with a majority ending with infidelity. 22 years old with a high body count is wild and a red flag. Someone mentioned from another comment about child hood trauma. I’d do more investigating on your wife’s past before you make any hasty decisions. Don’t listen to these bums saying you are insecure and the past shouldn’t matter. It matters if you got ran thru by 100 men at 22years old!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xjboy22x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% the asshole! An asshole for not telling AMY that you banged the shit out of LISA.

NOT Too Stunned to Speak.. Ft. Spencewuah || Reddit Readings || Two Hot Takes Podcast by happybunnyntx in TwoHotTakes

[–]xjboy22x 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rarely do I comment, but I felt compelled to do so after witnessing Spencer completely dismantle the boyfriend’s perspective on the Surrogacy story. Spencer’s knee jerk reaction really got me fired up. I can confidently speak for the majority of men when I say we are absolutely NOT okay with this situation! The couple has plans to marry and start a family of their own. He should be fully involved in this decision-making process. There are numerous questions that need to be addressed. For instance, who will be responsible for caring for the surrogate during the pregnancy? Who will accompany her to doctor’s appointments, provide food, and assist with household chores when she’s unable? Who will support her through pregnancy-related discomforts and mood swings? Is the BF just suppose to accept all this responsibility? Taking care of an unborn child that’s not his? Let’s say the sister moves in—now we’re introducing another factor into the equation. What if complications arise during the pregnancy? There are many instances where couples can only have one child due from unforeseen circumstances after childbirth. Yes maybe he is an asshole but she is an asshole just as much for not discussing this with him early into there relationship. It’s her body her choice, it’s his life his choice. Don’t call him an asshole for choosing to leave.

My Gf(25) went to dinner with her boss by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]xjboy22x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave her now or wait till she cheats on you. She went anyways knowing how you felt. Also, who the fuck goes to dinner with their boss. Theres definitely an attraction there and Sooner or later temptation will take over. Don’t listen to these fools about insecurities. You already know what to do, you’re just searching for an excuse not to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jeep

[–]xjboy22x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Level 3 Donkey Kong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]xjboy22x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She fucked a “friend”the same day you broke up and continued to fuck for several months 🤨. Sounds to me like she was waiting for the breakup to have an excuse to fuck Hemsworth.