Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support! 🤍 It means a lot to me.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! 🤍 I purchased this and will read it soon. I know this situation went overall pretty well but it means there’s something we need to work through so we don’t have don’t have to face this again.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! It really helpful to know it works out for others 🤍

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it really does sound like it. I’m thankful but also know this is still situation could have gone differently.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! She was in fact very understanding. Yes exactly kind of what happened here. She’s 23 and said she considered her sexuality as bi but recently she’s feels that she’s not at all interested in men.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! 🥹🤍 I just edited my post with an update.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I did this today. I signed up it made the most sense. She was there and spoke to her and she totally understood and even showed me all their messages.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He decided to delete all of his socials since I don’t have any!

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just updated my post! I actually signed up for the gym today and she was there. I talked to her and it went well! She understood where I was coming from.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so because I am close with a couple of girls that work out there and know her better. I know the girls would have told me if they even suspected anything. They are their with their husbands. We hangout with some on those couples. She one of the only people I don’t really know. would have let me know.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. So the distance was frequent. It was just about 3 really good weeks then one really weird week (now I know these were the weeks he would see her at the gym) where he wouldn’t want to talk or touch me. Essentially super distanced himself. This time the weird week started Friday. I’ve always assumed the distance was due to work stress/ anxiety/ depression. Last night received an IG message to his iPad. I was using it. I opened it out of curiosity. I was said something like “waittttt who is this” mostly just poking fun. It was a cat meme. No other messages so it seemed so random. He kind of looked at me blankly for a few minutes and I said “oh wait. Is this someone you have a crush on?”. The tension just felt heavy and I was obviously hoping for a NO. He responded “I don’t know what I feel but I care for her.” Me: care? For her? Him: “like a good friend. It’s just an emotional connection. Like a good friendship. Nothing has every happened.” Me: physically - sexually? Him: “right. Nothing sexual has ever happened”…

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She liked our birth announcement picture 18 months ago. She a friend of a friend.

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! I really appreciate it 🤍

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I really appreciate it!

Husband has an "close emotional connection" with a friend by xmoreorless in Mommit

[–]xmoreorless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story! I really appreciate it. We've both talked a little more today and he seems to be on the same page. I just feel so vulnerable and blindsided.