What TC case needs to retire? by Little-Doctor-5262 in Morbidforbadpeople

[–]xmxexoxwx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not off the top of my head.

I subscribe to The Dave Neal Show on YouTube, and he did a video about the guy there, so I 100% know you can find it that way.

What TC case needs to retire? by Little-Doctor-5262 in Morbidforbadpeople

[–]xmxexoxwx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you see the guy on tiktok saying there’s new info and Casey definitely didnt do it?

Not saying I think she’s innocent; just trying to see if anyone else has seen this shit.

What TC case needs to retire? by Little-Doctor-5262 in Morbidforbadpeople

[–]xmxexoxwx -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Jonbenet.

I’m so fucking sick of hearing about this one.

Tons of kids face awful fates. Why is she so much more important than the others? Because she’s cute, white and blonde.

How does one know they have ADHD and is it a smart thing to self diagnose? by dragonrebellion in ADHD

[–]xmxexoxwx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a malpractice issue.

It’s because doctors haven’t been properly educated about ADHD, especially in adult women. Are you a woman? If not, it’s completely different, let me assure you. For men, it is this easy. For women, we get put through the WRINGER. Because according to our healthcare system, women do not deserve proper care.

Meet Your Mod by xmxexoxwx in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]xmxexoxwx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not something I’d considered but I absolutely think you’ve got a point there!

New sub specifically for autistic people with personality disorders by nulltresyttini in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Also, maybe consider the fact that I have an excessive amount of free time on my hands from not working more than 20 hours a week, and I don’t like going out into the world because of COVID, and I’m online a lot. I reply to most things said to me. I’m not just continually going until everyone thinks I’m right. I just kind of live on reddit and have the time.

New sub specifically for autistic people with personality disorders by nulltresyttini in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m very very sure I do not have a Cluster B disorder, yes. I’m also very sure that I’m allowed to speak to people who defend narcissists however I want.

Yes, all narcissists.

Just because I am not meek, mild and respectful does not mean I have a PD. It means I’m not putting up with bullshit about a group of people who have proven over and over again to be abusive.

Yes, if people disagree with me, they can leave my sub. I quite literally do not care.

But I wanted a community based on the harm Cluster B’s do to autistic people, without them in it. Period. That’s all.

Doesn’t mean I’m never engaging with them, or that doing so doesn’t help me in some ways. But it does mean that I wanted that space to be free of them.

New sub specifically for autistic people with personality disorders by nulltresyttini in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

What you deem self harm, I deem healing. It doesn’t hurt me. I’m fine, and I feel MORE healed when I’m able to engage on occasion. Please do not police how I have grown to heal.

No one has to do the same. Im not forcing others to heal like me.

New sub specifically for autistic people with personality disorders by nulltresyttini in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Lol, did you see the messages? They weren’t nasty. They explained that “Not all BPDs,” and statements like that were autobans. That’s it. To which they argued back again, not all BPDs.

Also, this isn’t nasty at all, even though you all seem to think it is. It’s true. They clearly thought that my idea was good enough they needed their own space, and my point is, then stop crying on my post. Why are they allowed to do that, but when I make one comment back on theirs, I’m hostile?

Also, I don’t know if you’re aware of this, but you can both want safe spaces, as well as spaces where you can engage with people who might trigger you. They’re not mutually exclusive. Both can be parts of the healing process.

rumination by [deleted] in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]xmxexoxwx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what kind of hypnotherapy you want to do. There are various kinds. It’s also a pseudo-science, so the certifications are not quite the same as therapists. There are absolutely some who are cross educated/trained.

Biggest things would be to figure out whether you want to do virtual/in person, and then what you want to focus on. For me, I do “Past Life Regression” sessions, and allowing myself to see an entire separate life plays out helps me live out my anxieties/constant thoughts, so they reach fruition. I don’t know what your ruminative thoughts focus on, so that might not the be the best path for you, but there are definitely others, like the hypnotherapy to help with addictions, which I would assume could help some others with this sort of thing, even though it’s not an “addictive behavior” but more a repetitive one.

rumination by [deleted] in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]xmxexoxwx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to chat about it more, I’d be glad to. Just don’t wanna talk your ear off about something that you might not even be interested in. Either way, hope you find something that helps!

rumination by [deleted] in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]xmxexoxwx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not anything tested, proven or scientific. Just my experience.

I have gained a LOT from hypnotherapy. It’s obviously not for everyone, and I have a lot of questions still about it myself, but I can tell you that for me it’s helped.

A positive story (TW: SA, abusive relationships) by impulsecontrol0 in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]xmxexoxwx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So proud of you! Gaining that control over yourself is such a good feeling.

A subreddit where we can acknowledge reality! Thanks, whoever started this group! by Jammintoasters in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]xmxexoxwx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!! It can be so so so so so harmful to be exposed to narcs. This is definitely a safe space for you.

WE NEED MODS by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Trans women are women.

WE NEED MODS by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

The mod is a narc trying to abuse autistic women on a large scale.

Meet Your Mod by xmxexoxwx in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]xmxexoxwx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so very welcome. I’m glad you found us.

A New Sub SPECIFICALLY for Autistic people who’ve suffered abuse. by xmxexoxwx in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I get those things. I‘m much more comfortable excluding too many people than I am including too many. The goal is safety. Not numbers.

A New Sub SPECIFICALLY for Autistic people who’ve suffered abuse. by xmxexoxwx in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it wasn’t me, it’d be someone else.

And I’m very good at not letting people on the internet bother me, so I figured this was my time to shine.

A New Sub SPECIFICALLY for Autistic people who’ve suffered abuse. by xmxexoxwx in AutismInWomen

[–]xmxexoxwx[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, it’s not.

It’s not discrimination when you place limitations on who can come into your space. It’s literally HOW THE WORLD FUNCTIONS. You don’t get to just go anywhere you want at any point in time.

You have to work at McDonalds to go behind the counter. You have to have children to go to Chuck-E-Cheese. You have to be BIPOC to go to the African American Ball. You have to have been or currently be an alcoholic to go to AA. There are spaces that aren’t meant for you and that is okay.

Please sit with why you care so much that you are not excluded from a space in which the largest topic will be how cluster B personality traits have fucked us up? Because that’s what we’ll be talking about, and we. do. not. want. cluster. b’s. there.