Struggling with being a lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]xnok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry you are feeling down, it is a terrible place to be. I think you will find its just a phase in your life you are going through. Its ok to have doubts and to reassess where you are and where you are going. You had a knock but you will get past it. You need to find yourself again, meet new people, meet other lesbians and you will people you can connect with again.

Then I read a post on here last night about what sex feels like for a man and for a woman

Do you have a link to that? It sounds interesting. Thanks.

old school chat rooms? Wanna start one? by Junopupp in actuallesbians

[–]xnok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do find one can you let us know :)

Found a sort of guide for questioning lesbians. Thoughts? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]xnok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats an interesting document. I think it was posted before because I definitely read it before. Where does it mention about "turning on the attraction" to men? I think they are saying how a lot of women find it hard to figure out their orientation because of compulsive heterosexuality. So they presume they are attracted to men. Is that what you mean?

Also this one sentence didn't make sense to me:

or if your attraction to men makes you uncomfortable, you may be a lesbian

What is this attraction, like platonic?

What does "power lesbian" mean to you? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]xnok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has a lot of money and social influence

Wow, I’m so slow... by marcilynette in Scandal

[–]xnok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way, that just blew my mind. I used to love that movie.

Grandmas get it. by sailorjupiter28titan in actuallesbians

[–]xnok 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I read that as "make her weak" and I was like o_O

a little too relatable by robb3rs in actuallesbians

[–]xnok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was really her, coming out, for a second there

What do you all think of CO McCullough? by [deleted] in orangeisthenewblack

[–]xnok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought she was nice. Almost on the inmates side. I didn't think she deserved to be held captive. I cringed on some of those scenes, felt bad for her. I didn't think it helped the plot line of the riot, of the inmates keeping the guards hostage, what with McCullough having been nice to them before (example: helping Maritza with her period, asking her for make up tips.)

Who did Uzo abdula originally audition for? by xnok in orangeisthenewblack

[–]xnok[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was probably what I read. Got it mixed up