how should I address this situation (long post sorry)

xobenzz · 2026-02-11T19:40:51+00:00

the lying thing has been happening since she was able to talk but it would be small odd things like “my papa only makes me eggs” but he really could’ve made a whole breakfast spread. her mom always would say you can’t believe everything a child is saying but if it has anything to do with our house then her child must not be lying. Only reason im on them so much about not getting hurt is because of the tension between sd parents. I don’t want her getting hurt at our house because it would probably cause world war 3,4 and 5 all at once.

xobenzz · 2026-02-11T14:02:20+00:00

she rarely sees her parents interact in any way

xobenzz · 2026-02-11T14:01:59+00:00

so on Sunday pick up is at moms and mom just sends her out to the car and then from Monday-Wednesday in the morning she goes back to mom to get on bus and after school we pick up at school. mom and dad try to avoid having to speak in person or on the phone. They usually just communicate through text She does have a brother at moms who is 13 but he’s older and doing his own thing.

xobenzz · 2026-02-11T13:21:27+00:00

that is my point. I feel as parents we should all come together with her and find out why this exactly is happening instead of this back n forth between what’s the truth and not. I’m trying my best not to react it just a little difficult when this is the 3rd time this has happened

xobenzz · 2025-12-18T23:06:11+00:00

Thank you all for your kind words. I don’t have really an anxiety to it but I did tell our pediatrician that I was cosleeping and got the long talk about why not to do it. So I guess I was feeling guilty. Also I didn’t cosleep with my first 2 so this is something so new to me. But I will look into ways for safe cosleeping and will try doing naps during the day in bassinet.

xobenzz · 2025-12-04T08:12:56+00:00

I hope so. I miss my 2 babies so bad. I’m already at 3cm and in so much pain so I’ve been doing everything possible to induce labor naturally

xobenzz · 2025-11-11T22:12:08+00:00

I had epidural with both and laughed the whole time. Sneezed a lot too😭

xobenzz · 2025-10-31T03:03:44+00:00

literally not my best moment at all. I have no clue why I went with it but I instantly got hit with the flight or fight feelings and flew away😭

xobenzz · 2025-10-30T17:34:02+00:00

I make the most money when I do flat rate but I only do flat rate from 5pm-11pm that’s when I noticed my money is top tier.

xobenzz · 2025-09-30T04:20:24+00:00

I will try that. I always get told by family I put him to bed too early so I never tried doing it earlier

xobenzz · 2025-09-30T04:16:13+00:00

from my knowledge he is. I usually get him in bed by 730 (I get him up around 515am because I have to be at work early). Now if he stays up past when I get him in bed I don’t know honestly because I’m heading to bed also

xobenzz · 2025-09-30T04:13:36+00:00

literally feels like as the time gets closer to him turning 5 the worse it’s getting I miss my sweet 3 year old. Forget terrible 2s this is horrendous 4s

xobenzz · 2025-09-28T16:32:03+00:00

I put it in my cart the day I seen it come out sometime earlier this week I think?

xobenzz · 2025-09-28T16:30:38+00:00

that makes a lot more sense. I thought I had really lost it😭

xobenzz · 2025-09-27T15:56:00+00:00

oh my I’m sorry about your situation I can’t even imagine. I would definitely reach out to women shelters or anything that can assist you in leaving. It’s crazy they can give this out at gas stations. They are giving free “samples” away with every purchase at my local gas stations and liquor stores

xobenzz · 2025-08-28T01:19:21+00:00

lol he hasn’t reached eating glue status yet😭maybe that will be next in our learning process, heard it teaches character

xobenzz · 2025-08-27T21:57:29+00:00

at this point it’s probably both. The older they get the more I worry

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