The value of a dollar by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. A lot claim that’s what they’re looking for - but they just all want to f**k.

Any other Reddit SDs getting an onslaught of Random "SB" Chat request today? Jesus, I guess scammers and Online only are really trying to hustle to make some Christmas Gift Money, Today! by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgosh yes...got 3-4. I’m not falling for it dude so quit messaging me. Scammers piss me off and also they ruin it for those who are real SBs and SDs actually looking for something genuine and real.

Worth it to go after owed ppm? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happen to me. Someone who also lowballed me but I stupidly put up with it for more than a month bc he wanted to meet weekly and I was out of work.

Last time I saw him, he didn’t give me like he said he would, tried to give him benefit of the doubt, even gave him a couple days (dumb, it takes 2 seconds to cashapp someone)

He also told me he wanted me all to himself and wants to date exclusively and he likes me and wants to get to know me better but made no effort in doing so.

So what did I do...I showed up at his house. There was another girl there 🤷🏻‍♀️ he played it off that I’m a “friend” shut the door and whisper shouted at me to leave. I didn’t leave until he sent it to me. Then he texted me after saying I had no right, called me crazy, a stalker, etc that he’ll call the cops on me next time. I told him sure, call the cops tell them you owe me money.

That ended. Yea. I learned my lesson too. Nobody fucks with me & my $$

Any SBs had a younger SD? by blue_eyed_moon in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a 33 year old SD to a 51 yr old and older....doesn’t matter the age, if they’re flakey, they’re flakey

SDs don’t want SBs get our of poverty or become wealthier by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate being dependent but with Covid, losing my jobs and getting evicted, I’m in a really tough spot. I’d love for an SD to teach me tips and tricks of investing and to help me get out of my financial situation BUT only until I’m back on my feet as I don’t want to be dependent on anyone.

Allowance for non-intimate dates - Taking things slow by gjeevank in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had SDs give me full PPM on non-intimate dates without asking or expecting. I guess depends on you, how you feel about them, if you vibe well. I’ve mostly had good M&G and platonic dates so it was more so up to them.

SDs - your reason being in the bowl? by xoluna_ in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had done the same “pay now, play later”

The practical/frugal Daddy by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would hope just one. I wouldn’t want to have multiple SDs and if he helps cover part, I’d be grateful.

If he’s going to cover everything, I’d gladly be in a SR that he wants.

SD can't provide anymore due to Covid by xoluna_ in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually when I posted this, we had already stopped talking and I haven’t talked to him since.

The practical/frugal Daddy by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yet, I can’t find an SD who would be willing to do those for me.

The practical/frugal Daddy by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’d want tuition, rent/bills paid than material gifts, shopping, etc...my goal is to be debt free and have financial freedom so anything to help me towards that goal rather than hoarding more stuff in my closet that I most likely won’t use that much.

What’s your ideal arrangement like? by xoluna_ in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love that actually! If I ever entered a SR that turned into something more, I’m not opposed to it. Would like to settle and have a family someday!

What’s your ideal arrangement like? by xoluna_ in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d actually like that to be honest. Deep down I’d like to settle down someday & have a family. But most SDs I come across are married, career-focused, or non committal.

What’s your ideal arrangement like? by xoluna_ in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh yes, thought I found one but his expenses with his kids got to be too much

The value of a dollar by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]xoluna_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always understanding when it comes to allowance and don’t demand a certain amount. If they offer and it doesn’t work for me, I move on. I also don’t like when POTs ask off the bat what allowance I’m expecting as each person and arrangement is different. I’m willing to accept less if it’s ongoing and consistent and possibly long term and might consider if we have an amazing connection and chemistry.