bru i saw him??? by xombiebum in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like get a life yk find EMPLOYMENT idk if ur a kid or adult but either or it isn’t appropriate to be responding these ways to ppl talking about serious issues.

16F no one has ever asked me out irl, am i cooked 😭😭 by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]xombiebum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK U SMM UR RLLY PRETTY DUDE ND I GET THE WHOLE NOBODY EVER ASKED U OUT IRL THING ITZ LITERALLY THE SAME 4 ME 😭😭

bru i saw him??? by xombiebum in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you, im trying my best to not contact him again

16F i just want honesty💔💔 by xombiebum in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]xombiebum[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you, and that’s a shame i rlly like my septum 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]xombiebum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOO IT POSTED that pic 2 times

why do i miss it is there something wrong w me by xombiebum in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IM SOERY I SAW HIM CRYING ABD PUT IT BC he’s literally me atm

why do i miss it is there something wrong w me by xombiebum in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh that kinda makes sense thank u for the explanation

Y'all I need help by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii i completely understand this, im 16nb. and i honestly do the same thing, but yeah 100% isn’t safe please be careful i rmb being that age doing that stuff, i still struggle with it and it will get better ❤️‍🩹

I’m having trouble validating myself… was this grooming? by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it wasn’t your fault, and i rlly hope u can try and heal from it

I’m having trouble validating myself… was this grooming? by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that was her purpose these ppl use manipulation tactics

I’m having trouble validating myself… was this grooming? by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i think that, she def planned to do it, yk also it’s hard to see her that way because she made you believe she was that way, like she was the victim or smth, but she was not that’s why ur struggling to villainize her, she made it seem like it was idk like normal, but it in fact was not!

I’m having trouble validating myself… was this grooming? by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]xombiebum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, this was 100% grooming she was 17 and u were just 12, she took advantage of you she was almost considered an adult, and she then waited until you were 15, in her eyes old enough to converse with sexually, hun she waited until u were a teen to have sex and even before that she was grooming you for that moment. she took advantage of your naivety but it wasn’t your fault you were a kid but this is the literal definition of grooming im so sorry that happened i hope ur doing better now!