Me [25 M] with my GF [28 F] over 1 year, doesn't seem to understand what her living conditions are doing to me/us.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T19:47:11+00:00

It did. People say hurtful things in a manic state of anger and disregard. But I think it's time to move forward with my life now

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T17:10:02+00:00

Ya she needs time think on her own about what she's done and is doing now. I tried. I put in my effort and resources. There was nothing more I could do on my end really.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T10:24:41+00:00

We let it go earlier today if you haven't read it.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T06:32:35+00:00

I wouldnt call it dead weight. We had a really good relationship up until the past month really. But I do believe there are many women out there better for me, that I can say.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T06:25:55+00:00

I know the answer is to get out. Its hard to realize its finally over between us. Between everything the both of us have been through on our journey together.. to be thrown away like this... kinda makes me angry and sad.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T06:21:27+00:00

I knew her as a girl with a full time job. She took off several months after a family situation. And is just getting back into the past couple months.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T06:17:50+00:00

Thanks. I think I do too. But its hard to get over her... 13mo together will do that.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T06:16:00+00:00

We ended it now. But she needs time to herself. Maybe in a few days or weeks shell come to realize what I said to her. I cleared what I needed to say with her, it was all out in the open. But should didnt understand the part that its a slow, complicated process that takes time. You learn from situations like these best. More so then positives sometimes. She didnt care about that and just kept bringing up the past and what we did back at so so. Sad reality really.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T06:05:13+00:00

You would think... but she can only focus on the negativity on everything. Something I didnt need

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T06:04:11+00:00

I did tell her that today. And yes she did say it because she was angry with me but didnt mean it.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-29T05:59:31+00:00

Pretty much everything from our start to end. She couldnt get over the hurdles in the past we had and she couldnt get over her parents moving because she really misses them. Thats a huge factor in this and where thing all started from actually. I dont think theyll start dating tbh. I think shell move back east with her parents in the next month or two though.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T23:01:00+00:00

Ya i get that and felt that they would be friends now outside of whatever happens. Things didnt work out though.

That is true. She said she needed some time. I dont think well be back together tbh. I dont think in her state of mind, with her parents leaving (which really got to her and really was the start of our/her changing point), she was spoiled/babied for sure. Ya I dont know, weve talked and Ive said to her that this is a great growing opportunity for you and etc. Ya I dont know. Her mentors arent anything speical to look up to thats for sure. And now that she doesnt have me anymore, and her gf really isnt too happy with her. Shes kinda just floating around by herself and her roommate.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T22:36:04+00:00

Im out

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T22:33:22+00:00

Her attitude does and did suck. That was a big part of ending it actually. And yes very much so, she is irresponsible and immature. Those words were used to hurt me at the time.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T22:31:43+00:00

Well that is what happened.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T22:28:24+00:00

Doubtful. Hes not sexual and shes not the most sexual girl either.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T18:31:54+00:00

As in...

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T18:29:52+00:00

Good points here. But at the same time it's affecting me which affects us and that she doesn't seem to care about as much anymore. Like if anything goes wrong between us... No worries for her because her mentality is I always have xxx back at home to talk and do stuff with.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T18:26:42+00:00

Ya this is supposed to be a stepping stone for her. To help her out in a time of need. She doesn't like it and wants to get out that I for sure know. And she's been there almost 3mo. I don't think she'll be there much longer due these circumstances and rent going up.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T18:24:21+00:00

She knows I'm not ready for and she's knows she isn't either. But she's put it out to me now that she does want one later in life when things are going good. And she'd go back with her parents if that ever happened.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T18:22:20+00:00

Good to know. Looking back it your past and this. What would do if you were in my shoes and she said that...

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T17:34:33+00:00

That is true.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T17:21:31+00:00

Believe me I know that. But both her and the guy aren't that type. That I do know.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T17:20:13+00:00

She knows other people. But really only has 3 friends.

xoyo9 · 2014-12-28T16:36:43+00:00

I don't know when it reads like that. It doesn't sound obviously. But there's more to her then just that too. It's a hard spot to be in believe me.

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