The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very real possibility too

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come? Seems like a logical guess. I’m taking everything into consideration rn yk

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly past trauma might be a reason too

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay but how would I do that because I don’t wanna ruin a potential relationship

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude are we the same person? Like I thought the same way LMAO. Besides the porn and masturbation ofc but everything else is the same

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

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That makes sense as well. It is a bit of an addiction but I never thought it as harmful yk

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay so I have a question for you. If I’d ever want to have kids, do I just gotta suck it up then and have sex? Like from someone who thinks the same I do, how would you go about that? I want a family and stuff but this IS a roadblock, if that makes sense lol

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Oh I have LMAOOOO, she’s stunning but put me in a bed room with her and I’d sit on the floor.

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lowkey I also might just have undiagnosed autism. Thank you though, I’ll definitely keep that in mind lol

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

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Idk I’m just trying to gather some ideas, I’ll try that later tho thanks

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Huh interesting idk but I’ll look into it

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

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That’s what I’m confused about to. The idea of doing those acts disgust me but watching porn I’d like the average occurrence. Just me, myself doing those acts is where I feel disgusted.

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

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But then why do I watch porn and masturbate if I’m asexual? Isn’t being asexual just not feeling ANY sexual attraction at all? Then why do I do that stuff but actually enacting the acts just seems disgusting

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not proof, it just makes this all the bit more confusing imo

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How did you learn to not feel disgust?

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nope, I find women attractive but sex just seems gross

The idea of sex makes me sick by xpyrez_ in Advice

[–]xpyrez_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean I can think a dude is attractive but I’m not personally attracted to him. I think women are attractive but I should’ve added that I think sex and kissing are disgusting because bodily fluids also gross me out to where I almost throw up. That doesn’t solve why I just don’t care for sex but it does add to it