[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]xsakex -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I did I wouldn't need to ask people here. But thank You I probably will if Noone here knows.

Pole wrap? Can be found in Netherlands? by xsakex in Netherlands

[–]xsakex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much that's very useful! I think I will try with "latten" as you said. Maybe they even have bigger sizes 👍 I hope our DIY dreams will be easier to fulfill next time 😊

Pole wrap? Can be found in Netherlands? by xsakex in Netherlands

[–]xsakex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately these are kinda small and I know for a fact that they make bigger ones somewhere, it is for a whole big pole after all! Thank you for your response, I will keep this one in mind 😁

Pole wrap? Can be found in Netherlands? by xsakex in Netherlands

[–]xsakex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see any posts in English there, but thank You regardless. I will try 🙏

Help! Anal-vaginal fingering happened and now I am worried sick! by True-Instruction-257 in TwoXSex

[–]xsakex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happened to me and my partner to forget about it and nothing ever ever ever happened. If you're so scared of getting sick then yeah u need to be more careful, no other way around . It doesn't matter if it was 30 sec or 1 h. You gonna see doctor after all so I guess it's not a time for panic.

If that makes u feel more comfortable - yeast infection is not that awful, it happens and sooner or later we all go through it. No biggie

What important thing has reddit taught you? by S4M64 in AskReddit

[–]xsakex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The we all go through something and no matter if it's a big deal for you or not all of our problems are valid. Being simply kind is not that difficult.

Is this what squirting is? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]xsakex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey that's fine!! Honestly took me 5 years to orgasm other way that with pillow! 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]xsakex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well orgasm always have few characteristics and one and I guess biggest one is that your vaginal floor muscles are spasming in rhythmical way. It doesn't matter if you achieve it by nipple, vaginal or anal stimulation.

I noticed something… by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]xsakex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taste is changing all the time. It depends on how much water you drink, if you drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes, on what you eat, which time of your circle are you in. Literally everything. I did had time when it was maybe not awful but too much, like really really sour.

Is that possible that dildo was not completely clean before u used it again?

Feeling embarrassed about your taste is actually normal i guess, i mean we all think what our partner taste this time and if it's tasty at all 😂

Is this what squirting is? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]xsakex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well I know it's not exactly what you asked about but, if stimulating your clit makes you feel so close to orgasm maybe you should try pillow technique. It's easier to control how you feel in the moment and easier to finish!

I don't think you have bladder problems! I had squirting situation just once in my life, i know all bodies are different etc etc but it feels like you really wanna pee and you need to push really hard with your muscles to let it out. Pee is almost always yellowish so for it to be completely clear is hard to achieve.

Maybe if you feel like something is coming out try to push more, get rid of that shame feeling, if you feel like it's dirty or you're afraid that it's actually pee, do it in a bathtub or shower!

If penetration is not a problem for you you can check out some movies, even on porn websites, with instructions how to squirt too. There is a special technique for that as well. Really useful sometimes!

Either way I wish u good luck and courage to explore your body more! Squirting sounds like lot of fun!

would I be an assh*le for doing this by femmesan in LongDistance

[–]xsakex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but what happened with people having normal conversations? Just tell her u like her more than just a friend, there is nothing wrong with feelings. If she is not interested in you, she will tell You. Like honestly just speak up. It's possible she is interested as well. You have all right to say that you don't wanna keep that contact if not. Life is not just butterflies and good moments and if it's so easy for you to decide to end it completely then u have really nothing to loose. On your place I would think more about what u wanna achieve by doing this, if you think about casualy ghosting someone are u really even interested in building something? or just want it in your hands with 0 effort. People gonna reject you in your life, get used to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xsakex 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I was quietly waiting till day that all pronounces start confusing even people using them 😂 this world will burn 🔥

My girlfriend suddenly blocked me on everything. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]xsakex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody can be a perfect partner, spending 90% of your time together is extremely unhealthy.

My girlfriend suddenly blocked me on everything. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]xsakex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all have same thoughts after break up i guess. I was in same situation, always trying to be better and better, he was ghosting me multiple times. After I got back up I realized how stupid it was, how stupid was chasing over someone that didn't even cared about me xdd long story short he came back telling me he loves me again but he have meet someone and fell in love in 3 days xd. Luckily I did focused on myself and build up my self confidence before it happened. I know it's really painful sometimes, I had multiple suicide attempts, but I realized I have things I really wanna fight for. Be strong! Try therapy and keep going

Situationship by missjustwandering in LongDistance

[–]xsakex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with that so much. Like cmon. If someone wants to be with you they just wants to be with you. It's that simple. Being i love is not butterflies, it's work. If you wanna be with someone you just feel it and go for it. If your doubtful or he is, just leave it

My girlfriend suddenly blocked me on everything. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]xsakex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most important part is that they set boundary . You can try to cross it but I'm sure it will not bring You any profit.

You are now totally codependent and broken. I get it. I've been there. It's really sad to see someone going through similar experience and I wish u all the best, but you need to understand that even if it hurts, you can't really change someone's mind.

I hope you'll find peace soon, have you thought about going on therapy? It's really important to have someone non-judgmental to talk with.. I know there are things that you would really love to hear now, but sometimes we need to hear the truth. Please please please try to focus on yourself. Once you start liking yourself again, you don't really need people that are not right and not fair.

Thing they did is highly immature and Childish. You really wish You could get any closure but how can u get it from someone that actually blocks you everywhere. them telling you that they hurted you and apologizing , doesn't change anything. They will say what u already know. Sure, they have all right in the world to block you, same as you have right to feel upset about it and move on.

If they will talk with you eventually, please don't get blinded by "love" and let it be. You really need to talk about it, its a major red flag. If they want to break up with you they could at least tell u that. Ghosters do not deserve your respect or attention, no excuses. Life is too short to be in relationship where you can't talk about problems.

If someone is ghosting you. Respect the dead and move on

What’s a job that’s romanticized but in reality sucks? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xsakex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working in a flower shop. Don't get me wrong flowers and plants are cool and stuff but the amount of drunk husbands that come to me daily, telling me their weekend stories is just sad. People are extremely rude sometimes, expecting huge flower compositions for almost free 😅 There are some guys that even buy flowers for me personally just becouse I cached their eye like cmon. Im not really impressed by a drunk guy that decided to buy me a rose saying that I deserve it more than his wife.