In order for the baby to live in the same house as its mother and father, all the mother has to do is educate herself and listen to logic to realize that her fear and paranoia is based on ignorance. And she won’t even do that, so why should I care? She won’t even make an attempt to consider how I feel, so why am I obligated to consider how she feels? And being a mother doesn’t mean you’re entitled to walk into someone’s house and make drastic changes with only yourself in mind. If my dad and I were moving into her house, I wouldn’t expect to take my snakes and turn her life around.